“Take the time to learn your partner’s heart.”

People who walk away from you without a clear conversation or a willingness to see your heart decided who you were long time ago. Let them go.

Chasing unavailable people is self abandonment.

When we heal ourselves, we heal our families. When we heal our families, we heal the world.

It’s not your job to awaken your family.

If you have to abandon yourself to make the relationship work, that’s not love.

You can love someone and still make the choice to let them go.

Chasing unavailable people is a sneak way for the ego to avoid intimacy.

Heartbreak can trigger childhood wounds.

Be the kind of person you want to date.

Ultra-independence is a trauma response.

Endings are also beginnings with a destination unknown.

Maturity is willing to acknowledge what you are willing to shift, learn or give to create the kind of relationship you want.

Life isn’t trying to break you down. It’s trying to break you open.

You don’t hold place for everyone’s shit.

You don’t have to be “finished” your healing work before entering into your relationship.

Imagine what you could be doing with all the energy you give away to people who don’t want what you want.

Hateful to me as the gates of Hades is that man who hides one thing in his heart and speaks another.

I can be reasonably funny and light-hearted when I’m in the company of good friends, but I’m not a jokesmith. I tend to be quite serious.

The best love is the kind that awakens the soul and makes us reach for more, that plants a fire in our hearts and brings peace to our minds. And that’s what you’ve given me. That’s what I’d hoped to give you forever

The mind can calculate, but the spirit yearns, and the heart knows what the heart knows.

If they let me choose between you and the dog, I’ll choose the dog.

People cry not because they’re weak, it’s because they’ve been strong for too long.

Without love, there is no reason to know anyone, for love will in the end connect us to our neighbors, our children and our hearts.

You’re my backbone. You’re a blessing. You’re a piece of my heart. You’re the air I breathe. And you’re the strongest person I know, and I’m so sorry for having to put you through this and having to put our family through this.