Everybody comes into a relationship with baggage. We can either trip over each other’s stuff, or unpack it together.
SHELEANA AIYANAWe cannot save people. But we can love them. And this is the highest expression of our essence.
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Our ability to receive love is a mirror of our own self worth. Until we learn to receive love with an open heart, we’re limited to how deep our relationships can go.
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Sometimes we are afraid to let go of our story and our pain because we don’t know who we are without it.
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Sometimes it’s the people who have the most baggage that become the most attentive and committed partners.
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You don’t have to act on every thought and feeling you have.
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Living in each moment with the awareness that nothing is permanent is an invitation to love more deeply, to speak more honesty, and to align with whispers of our soul.
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Authentic love can be unconditional and still require reciprocity, respect, and mutual willingness.
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You do not have to be perfect to create healthy love, you just have to be willing.
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Feelings don’t have to make sense to be valid.
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You are not responsible for carrying the pain, trauma, or shame of your mother and father. Release yourself from carrying what was never yours to carry.
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Maturity in relationship is knowing that our partners do not belong to us.
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You don’t hold place for everyone’s shit.
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Some of us are here to be the change-makers in our family system. We’re here to end generational trauma and start passing down love, instead of pain.
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Chasing unavailable people is a sneak way for the ego to avoid intimacy.
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You are not separate from love, love is all that you are.
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Life isn’t trying to break you down. It’s trying to break you open.
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It’s not your job to save people from their feelings.
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Heartbreak does not have to be a meaningless experience. For many, it is a spiritual catalyst – a pathway to awakening to ones deepest desires for love, purpose and connection.
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Ghosting is an expression of extreme anxiety and fear of intimacy. As much as it hurts to be on the receiving end, please know it was never about you.
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Choose the path that feels lighter.
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You don’t have to be “finished” your healing work before entering into your relationship.
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Be the kind of person you want to date.
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People who walk away from you without a clear conversation or a willingness to see your heart decided who you were long time ago. Let them go.
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Feelings don’t have to make sense to be valid.
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Ultra-independence is a trauma response.
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It’s okay to let go of anyone who doesn’t hold you in your highest light.
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Coming home to yourself is the process of remembrance.
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