The hallmark of secure attachment is being able to remain connected to yourself while also being connected to others.
SHELEANA AIYANAFeelings don’t have to make sense to be valid.
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Endings are also beginnings with a destination unknown.
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Chasing unavailable people is self abandonment.
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People who walk away from you without a clear conversation or a willingness to see your heart decided who you were long time ago. Let them go.
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When we heal ourselves, we heal our families. When we heal our families, we heal the world.
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Your body is meant to be the safest place for you to live.
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No more dumpster diving for love. You can have it all. That healthy, beautiful, two feet kinda love.
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Heartbreak can trigger childhood wounds.
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You do not have to be perfect to create healthy love, you just have to be willing.
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Chasing unavailable people is a sneak way for the ego to avoid intimacy.
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Chasing unavailable people is self abandonment.
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Authentic love can be unconditional and still require reciprocity, respect, and mutual willingness.
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Heartbreak does not have to be a meaningless experience. For many, it is a spiritual catalyst – a pathway to awakening to ones deepest desires for love, purpose and connection.
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Choose the path that feels lighter.
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It’s not your job to awaken your family.
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Feelings don’t have to make sense to be valid.
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Take the time to learn your partner’s heart.
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Be the kind of person you want to date.
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To be human is to embrace change. There are parts of you ready to die and parts of you waiting to be born. You are never broken, lost. You are ever changing. Always becoming.
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If they say they don’t want a relationship right now, that’s not an invitation to sit in their waiting room.
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You can love someone and still make the choice to let them go.
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Ghosting is an expression of extreme anxiety and fear of intimacy. As much as it hurts to be on the receiving end, please know it was never about you.
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Do not cling to what isn’t meant for you.
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You don’t have to act on every thought and feeling you have.
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Sometimes it’s the people who have the most baggage that become the most attentive and committed partners.
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It’s okay to let go of anyone who doesn’t hold you in your highest light.
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You don’t hold place for everyone’s shit.
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