It’s not your job to save people from their feelings.
SHELEANA AIYANAYou don’t have to be “finished” your healing work before entering into your relationship.
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Sometimes it’s the people who have the most baggage that become the most attentive and committed partners.
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Feelings don’t have to make sense to be valid.
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Ultra-independence is a trauma response.
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We are not our partner’s therapist, psychologist, teacher, judge. We are their friend, ally, and partner in healing.
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When we heal ourselves, we heal our families. When we heal our families, we heal the world.
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Living in each moment with the awareness that nothing is permanent is an invitation to love more deeply, to speak more honesty, and to align with whispers of our soul.
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Some of us are here to be the change-makers in our family system. We’re here to end generational trauma and start passing down love, instead of pain.
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Don’t believe everything your mind tells you.
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Your body is meant to be the safest place for you to live.
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Life isn’t trying to break you down. It’s trying to break you open.
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It’s not your job to awaken your family.
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Coming home to yourself is the process of remembrance.
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Power and energy games only exist in a relationship when the ego is at the wheel. When we heal our hearts, we can show up as mature beings in service to love.
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It’s okay to let go of anyone who doesn’t hold you in your highest light.
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Imagine what you could be doing with all the energy you give away to people who don’t want what you want.
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Rejection is redirection.
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Heartbreak does not have to be a meaningless experience. For many, it is a spiritual catalyst – a pathway to awakening to ones deepest desires for love, purpose and connection.
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Do not cling to what isn’t meant for you.
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Feelings don’t have to make sense to be valid.
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No more dumpster diving for love. You can have it all. That healthy, beautiful, two feet kinda love.
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You do not have to be perfect to create healthy love, you just have to be willing.
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One of the most painful things we can do is live our whole lives believing everything our mind tells us.
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You don’t hold place for everyone’s shit.
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Chasing unavailable people is a sneak way for the ego to avoid intimacy.
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Healing takes time. Be gentle with yourself.
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Endings are also beginnings with a destination unknown.
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