Chasing unavailable people is a sneak way for the ego to avoid intimacy.
SHELEANA AIYANAChasing unavailable people is self abandonment.
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Be the kind of person you want to date.
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It’s not your job to save people from their feelings.
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You are not responsible for carrying the pain, trauma, or shame of your mother and father. Release yourself from carrying what was never yours to carry.
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You do not have to be perfect to create healthy love, you just have to be willing.
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You are not separate from love, love is all that you are.
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If you have to abandon yourself to make the relationship work, that’s not love.
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If they say they don’t want a relationship right now, that’s not an invitation to sit in their waiting room.
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Do not cling to what isn’t meant for you.
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Feelings don’t have to make sense to be valid.
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You do not have to be perfect to create healthy love, you just have to be willing.
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Everybody comes into a relationship with baggage. We can either trip over each other’s stuff, or unpack it together.
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Ultra-independence is a trauma response.
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It’s not your job to awaken your family.
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Sometimes it’s the people who have the most baggage that become the most attentive and committed partners.
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Heartbreak does not have to be a meaningless experience. For many, it is a spiritual catalyst – a pathway to awakening to ones deepest desires for love, purpose and connection.
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Some of us are here to be the change-makers in our family system. We’re here to end generational trauma and start passing down love, instead of pain.
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You don’t hold place for everyone’s shit.
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Heartbreak does not have to be a meaningless experience. For many, it is a spiritual catalyst – a pathway to awakening to ones deepest desires for love, purpose and connection.
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People who walk away from you without a clear conversation or a willingness to see your heart decided who you were long time ago. Let them go.
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Authentic love can be unconditional and still require reciprocity, respect, and mutual willingness.
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Rejection is redirection.
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Anger is as sacred and valid as any other emotion.
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Power and energy games only exist in a relationship when the ego is at the wheel. When we heal our hearts, we can show up as mature beings in service to love.
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You are never, under any circumstance, responsible for the abusive actions of another.
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Endings are also beginnings with a destination unknown.
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Heartbreak can trigger childhood wounds.
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