You don’t have to act on every thought and feeling you have.
SHELEANA AIYANAMaturity is willing to acknowledge what you are willing to shift, learn or give to create the kind of relationship you want.
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Endings are also beginnings with a destination unknown.
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Ghosting is an expression of extreme anxiety and fear of intimacy. As much as it hurts to be on the receiving end, please know it was never about you.
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You do not have to be perfect to create healthy love, you just have to be willing.
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Heartbreak does not have to be a meaningless experience. For many, it is a spiritual catalyst – a pathway to awakening to ones deepest desires for love, purpose and connection.
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Chasing unavailable people is self abandonment.
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Living in each moment with the awareness that nothing is permanent is an invitation to love more deeply, to speak more honesty, and to align with whispers of our soul.
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You do not have to be perfect to create healthy love, you just have to be willing.
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Power and energy games only exist in a relationship when the ego is at the wheel. When we heal our hearts, we can show up as mature beings in service to love.
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You don’t have to be “finished” your healing work before entering into your relationship.
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Ultra-independence is a trauma response.
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Sometimes it’s the people who have the most baggage that become the most attentive and committed partners.
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Chasing unavailable people is a sneak way for the ego to avoid intimacy.
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We cannot save people. But we can love them. And this is the highest expression of our essence.
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You are never, under any circumstance, responsible for the abusive actions of another.
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Maturity in relationship is knowing that our partners do not belong to us.
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People who walk away from you without a clear conversation or a willingness to see your heart decided who you were long time ago. Let them go.
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Choose the path that feels lighter.
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Healing takes time. Be gentle with yourself.
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Authentic love can be unconditional and still require reciprocity, respect, and mutual willingness.
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Don’t believe everything your mind tells you.
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Feelings don’t have to make sense to be valid.
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If they say they don’t want a relationship right now, that’s not an invitation to sit in their waiting room.
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Some of us are here to be the change-makers in our family system. We’re here to end generational trauma and start passing down love, instead of pain.
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Coming home to yourself is the process of remembrance.
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Sometimes we are afraid to let go of our story and our pain because we don’t know who we are without it.
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To be human is to embrace change. There are parts of you ready to die and parts of you waiting to be born. You are never broken, lost. You are ever changing. Always becoming.
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