Chasing unavailable people is a sneak way for the ego to avoid intimacy.
SHELEANA AIYANADo not cling to what isn’t meant for you.
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Rejection is redirection.
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Ghosting is an expression of extreme anxiety and fear of intimacy. As much as it hurts to be on the receiving end, please know it was never about you.
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People who walk away from you without a clear conversation or a willingness to see your heart decided who you were long time ago. Let them go.
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The only way to confirm our worth, is to stop chasing people and start setting boundaries for who we allow in our lives.
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Some of us are here to be the change-makers in our family system. We’re here to end generational trauma and start passing down love, instead of pain.
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Sometimes it’s the people who have the most baggage that become the most attentive and committed partners.
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Opening your heart and being vulnerable in the face of fear is the most courageous thing you can do.
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Endings are also beginnings with a destination unknown.
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You can love someone and still make the choice to let them go.
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You don’t have to be “finished” your healing work before entering into your relationship.
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Healing takes time. Be gentle with yourself.
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Heartbreak does not have to be a meaningless experience. For many, it is a spiritual catalyst – a pathway to awakening to ones deepest desires for love, purpose and connection.
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You do not have to be perfect to create healthy love, you just have to be willing.
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Your partner is your spiritual teacher.
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Choose the path that feels lighter.
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To be human is to embrace change. There are parts of you ready to die and parts of you waiting to be born. You are never broken, lost. You are ever changing. Always becoming.
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Power and energy games only exist in a relationship when the ego is at the wheel. When we heal our hearts, we can show up as mature beings in service to love.
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It’s not your job to save people from their feelings.
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Take the time to learn your partner’s heart.
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Living in each moment with the awareness that nothing is permanent is an invitation to love more deeply, to speak more honesty, and to align with whispers of our soul.
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It’s not your job to awaken your family.
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Imagine what you could be doing with all the energy you give away to people who don’t want what you want.
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We are not our partner’s therapist, psychologist, teacher, judge. We are their friend, ally, and partner in healing.
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Chasing unavailable people is self abandonment.
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You are not responsible for carrying the pain, trauma, or shame of your mother and father. Release yourself from carrying what was never yours to carry.
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Some of us are here to be the change-makers in our family system. We’re here to end generational trauma and start passing down love, instead of pain.
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