Sometimes we are afraid to let go of our story and our pain because we don’t know who we are without it.
SHELEANA AIYANAChoose the path that feels lighter.
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We are not our partner’s therapist, psychologist, teacher, judge. We are their friend, ally, and partner in healing.
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Power and energy games only exist in a relationship when the ego is at the wheel. When we heal our hearts, we can show up as mature beings in service to love.
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You do not have to be perfect to create healthy love, you just have to be willing.
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You are not separate from love, love is all that you are.
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No more dumpster diving for love. You can have it all. That healthy, beautiful, two feet kinda love.
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Living in each moment with the awareness that nothing is permanent is an invitation to love more deeply, to speak more honesty, and to align with whispers of our soul.
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Our ability to receive love is a mirror of our own self worth. Until we learn to receive love with an open heart, we’re limited to how deep our relationships can go.
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Authentic love can be unconditional and still require reciprocity, respect, and mutual willingness.
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The hallmark of secure attachment is being able to remain connected to yourself while also being connected to others.
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Everybody comes into a relationship with baggage. We can either trip over each other’s stuff, or unpack it together.
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Endings are also beginnings with a destination unknown.
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Anger is as sacred and valid as any other emotion.
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Heartbreak can trigger childhood wounds.
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You can love someone and still make the choice to let them go.
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You don’t hold place for everyone’s shit.
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It’s not your job to awaken your family.
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Some of us are here to be the change-makers in our family system. We’re here to end generational trauma and start passing down love, instead of pain.
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Some of us are here to be the change-makers in our family system. We’re here to end generational trauma and start passing down love, instead of pain.
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Maturity in relationship is knowing that our partners do not belong to us.
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Ultra-independence is a trauma response.
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Chasing unavailable people is self abandonment.
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Your partner is your spiritual teacher.
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Take the time to learn your partner’s heart.
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Feelings don’t have to make sense to be valid.
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If you have to abandon yourself to make the relationship work, that’s not love.
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People who walk away from you without a clear conversation or a willingness to see your heart decided who you were long time ago. Let them go.
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