We are not our partner’s therapist, psychologist, teacher, judge. We are their friend, ally, and partner in healing.
SHELEANA AIYANA
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Sheleana Aiyana61 quotes“We are not our partner’s therapist, psychologist, teacher, judge. We are their friend, ally, and partner in healing.”
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Some of us are here to be the change-makers in our family system. We’re here to end generational trauma and start passing down love, instead of pain.
Sheleana AiyanaSheleana Aiyana Be gentle with your heart.
Sheleana AiyanaSheleana Aiyana Sometimes we are afraid to let go of our story and our pain because we don’t know who we are without it.
Sheleana AiyanaSheleana Aiyana Sometimes it’s the people who have the most baggage that become the most attentive and committed partners.
Sheleana AiyanaSheleana Aiyana Everybody comes into a relationship with baggage. We can either trip over each other’s stuff, or unpack it together.
Sheleana AiyanaSheleana Aiyana Chasing unavailable people is self abandonment.
Sheleana AiyanaSheleana Aiyana You do not have to be perfect to create healthy love, you just have to be willing.
Sheleana AiyanaSheleana Aiyana It’s okay to let go of anyone who doesn’t hold you in your highest light.
Sheleana AiyanaSheleana Aiyana The hallmark of secure attachment is being able to remain connected to yourself while also being connected to others.
Sheleana AiyanaSheleana Aiyana Do not cling to what isn’t meant for you.
Sheleana AiyanaSheleana Aiyana You don’t have to act on every thought and feeling you have.
Sheleana AiyanaSheleana Aiyana It’s not your job to save people from their feelings.
Sheleana AiyanaSheleana Aiyana Heartbreak does not have to be a meaningless experience. For many, it is a spiritual catalyst – a pathway to awakening to ones deepest desires for love, purpose and connection.
Sheleana AiyanaSheleana Aiyana You are not separate from love, love is all that you are.
Sheleana AiyanaSheleana Aiyana Feelings don’t have to make sense to be valid.
Sheleana AiyanaSheleana Aiyana Heartbreak does not have to be a meaningless experience. For many, it is a spiritual catalyst – a pathway to awakening to ones deepest desires for love, purpose and connection.
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