Chasing unavailable people is self abandonment.
SHELEANA AIYANAEverybody comes into a relationship with baggage. We can either trip over each other’s stuff, or unpack it together.
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We cannot save people. But we can love them. And this is the highest expression of our essence.
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Imagine what you could be doing with all the energy you give away to people who don’t want what you want.
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You do not have to be perfect to create healthy love, you just have to be willing.
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Feelings don’t have to make sense to be valid.
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Do not cling to what isn’t meant for you.
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We are not our partner’s therapist, psychologist, teacher, judge. We are their friend, ally, and partner in healing.
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People who walk away from you without a clear conversation or a willingness to see your heart decided who you were long time ago. Let them go.
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Coming home to yourself is the process of remembrance.
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You don’t have to be “finished” your healing work before entering into your relationship.
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One of the most painful things we can do is live our whole lives believing everything our mind tells us.
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Power and energy games only exist in a relationship when the ego is at the wheel. When we heal our hearts, we can show up as mature beings in service to love.
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The only way to confirm our worth, is to stop chasing people and start setting boundaries for who we allow in our lives.
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You are not separate from love, love is all that you are.
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It’s okay to let go of anyone who doesn’t hold you in your highest light.
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Rejection is redirection.
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Choose the path that feels lighter.
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It’s not your job to save people from their feelings.
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Be gentle with your heart.
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Ultra-independence is a trauma response.
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Your partner is your spiritual teacher.
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People who walk away from you without a clear conversation or a willingness to see your heart decided who you were long time ago. Let them go.
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Endings are also beginnings with a destination unknown.
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No more dumpster diving for love. You can have it all. That healthy, beautiful, two feet kinda love.
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Living in each moment with the awareness that nothing is permanent is an invitation to love more deeply, to speak more honesty, and to align with whispers of our soul.
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When we heal ourselves, we heal our families. When we heal our families, we heal the world.
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The hallmark of secure attachment is being able to remain connected to yourself while also being connected to others.
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