“Coming home to yourself is the process of remembrance.”

Ultra-independence is a trauma response.

Endings are also beginnings with a destination unknown.

Maturity is willing to acknowledge what you are willing to shift, learn or give to create the kind of relationship you want.

Life isn’t trying to break you down. It’s trying to break you open.

You don’t hold place for everyone’s shit.

You don’t have to be “finished” your healing work before entering into your relationship.

Imagine what you could be doing with all the energy you give away to people who don’t want what you want.

Choose the path that feels lighter.

Power and energy games only exist in a relationship when the ego is at the wheel. When we heal our hearts, we can show up as mature beings in service to love.

Ghosting is an expression of extreme anxiety and fear of intimacy. As much as it hurts to be on the receiving end, please know it was never about you.

Our ability to receive love is a mirror of our own self worth. Until we learn to receive love with an open heart, we’re limited to how deep our relationships can go.

One of the most painful things we can do is live our whole lives believing everything our mind tells us.

We cannot save people. But we can love them. And this is the highest expression of our essence.

Authentic love can be unconditional and still require reciprocity, respect, and mutual willingness.

Your partner is your spiritual teacher.

Healing takes time. Be gentle with yourself.

If I’m such a legend, then why am I so lonely? If I’m such a legend, then why do I sit at home for hours staring at the damned telephone, hoping it’s out of order, even calling the operator asking her if she’s sure it’s not out of order?

Home is, I suppose just a child’s idea. A house at night, and a lamp in the house. A place to feel safe.

I was home-schooled my whole life, pretty much.

You are just as beautiful as those wounds that house you.

I love cats because I enjoy my home; and little by little, they become its visible soul.

You remind me what heavens air felt like, I think you’re here to walk me home.

I never wanted to go away, and the hard part now is the leaving you all. I’m not afraid, but it seems as if I should be homesick for you even in heaven.

A lover should be two things at once: the wild and a home.