You don’t have to be “finished” your healing work before entering into your relationship.
SHELEANA AIYANATo be human is to embrace change. There are parts of you ready to die and parts of you waiting to be born. You are never broken, lost. You are ever changing. Always becoming.
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When we heal ourselves, we heal our families. When we heal our families, we heal the world.
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Authentic love can be unconditional and still require reciprocity, respect, and mutual willingness.
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It’s not your job to awaken your family.
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Don’t believe everything your mind tells you.
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Imagine what you could be doing with all the energy you give away to people who don’t want what you want.
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Do not cling to what isn’t meant for you.
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You do not have to be perfect to create healthy love, you just have to be willing.
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The hallmark of secure attachment is being able to remain connected to yourself while also being connected to others.
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Chasing unavailable people is a sneak way for the ego to avoid intimacy.
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Take the time to learn your partner’s heart.
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Sometimes we are afraid to let go of our story and our pain because we don’t know who we are without it.
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Sometimes it’s the people who have the most baggage that become the most attentive and committed partners.
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To be human is to embrace change. There are parts of you ready to die and parts of you waiting to be born. You are never broken, lost. You are ever changing. Always becoming.
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Maturity in relationship is knowing that our partners do not belong to us.
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Opening your heart and being vulnerable in the face of fear is the most courageous thing you can do.
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Be the kind of person you want to date.
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It’s not your job to save people from their feelings.
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Healing takes time. Be gentle with yourself.
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Heartbreak can trigger childhood wounds.
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Heartbreak does not have to be a meaningless experience. For many, it is a spiritual catalyst – a pathway to awakening to ones deepest desires for love, purpose and connection.
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People who walk away from you without a clear conversation or a willingness to see your heart decided who you were long time ago. Let them go.
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You don’t have to act on every thought and feeling you have.
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You are never, under any circumstance, responsible for the abusive actions of another.
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Be gentle with your heart.
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Anger is as sacred and valid as any other emotion.
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Rejection is redirection.
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