It’s not your job to save people from their feelings.
SHELEANA AIYANAIt’s not your job to save people from their feelings.
SHELEANA AIYANAYou are not separate from love, love is all that you are.
SHELEANA AIYANAOne of the most painful things we can do is live our whole lives believing everything our mind tells us.
SHELEANA AIYANAWhen we heal ourselves, we heal our families. When we heal our families, we heal the world.
SHELEANA AIYANAImagine what you could be doing with all the energy you give away to people who don’t want what you want.
SHELEANA AIYANAWe are not our partner’s therapist, psychologist, teacher, judge. We are their friend, ally, and partner in healing.
SHELEANA AIYANAHealing takes time. Be gentle with yourself.
SHELEANA AIYANAChasing unavailable people is self abandonment.
SHELEANA AIYANADo not cling to what isn’t meant for you.
SHELEANA AIYANAChasing unavailable people is a sneak way for the ego to avoid intimacy.
SHELEANA AIYANAAnger is as sacred and valid as any other emotion.
SHELEANA AIYANAComing home to yourself is the process of remembrance.
SHELEANA AIYANAPower and energy games only exist in a relationship when the ego is at the wheel. When we heal our hearts, we can show up as mature beings in service to love.
SHELEANA AIYANAFeelings don’t have to make sense to be valid.
SHELEANA AIYANAYou can love someone and still make the choice to let them go.
SHELEANA AIYANAOpening your heart and being vulnerable in the face of fear is the most courageous thing you can do.
SHELEANA AIYANA