Ghosting is an expression of extreme anxiety and fear of intimacy. As much as it hurts to be on the receiving end, please know it was never about you.
SHELEANA AIYANADon’t believe everything your mind tells you.
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Chasing unavailable people is a sneak way for the ego to avoid intimacy.
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If they say they don’t want a relationship right now, that’s not an invitation to sit in their waiting room.
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If you have to abandon yourself to make the relationship work, that’s not love.
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The hallmark of secure attachment is being able to remain connected to yourself while also being connected to others.
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You don’t have to act on every thought and feeling you have.
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Sometimes it’s the people who have the most baggage that become the most attentive and committed partners.
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Maturity in relationship is knowing that our partners do not belong to us.
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Feelings don’t have to make sense to be valid.
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We cannot save people. But we can love them. And this is the highest expression of our essence.
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You can love someone and still make the choice to let them go.
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Endings are also beginnings with a destination unknown.
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To be human is to embrace change. There are parts of you ready to die and parts of you waiting to be born. You are never broken, lost. You are ever changing. Always becoming.
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Maturity is willing to acknowledge what you are willing to shift, learn or give to create the kind of relationship you want.
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People who walk away from you without a clear conversation or a willingness to see your heart decided who you were long time ago. Let them go.
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We are not our partner’s therapist, psychologist, teacher, judge. We are their friend, ally, and partner in healing.
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