Be gentle with your heart.
SHELEANA AIYANADon’t believe everything your mind tells you.
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Healing takes time. Be gentle with yourself.
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If you have to abandon yourself to make the relationship work, that’s not love.
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You don’t have to act on every thought and feeling you have.
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Do not cling to what isn’t meant for you.
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Ultra-independence is a trauma response.
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Be the kind of person you want to date.
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Sometimes we are afraid to let go of our story and our pain because we don’t know who we are without it.
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If they say they don’t want a relationship right now, that’s not an invitation to sit in their waiting room.
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The hallmark of secure attachment is being able to remain connected to yourself while also being connected to others.
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We are not our partner’s therapist, psychologist, teacher, judge. We are their friend, ally, and partner in healing.
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Chasing unavailable people is self abandonment.
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Everybody comes into a relationship with baggage. We can either trip over each other’s stuff, or unpack it together.
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You are never, under any circumstance, responsible for the abusive actions of another.
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Power and energy games only exist in a relationship when the ego is at the wheel. When we heal our hearts, we can show up as mature beings in service to love.
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Heartbreak can trigger childhood wounds.
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