Because the development of inner calm & energy happens completely within & isn’t dependent on another person or a particular situation, we begin to feel a resourcefulness and independence that is quite beautiful—and a huge relief.
SHARON SALZBERGEven when we do our very best to treat those close to us with utmost respect and understanding, conflict happens. That’s life. That’s human nature.
More Sharon Salzberg Quotes
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It is never too late to turn on the light. Your ability to break an unhealthy habit or turn off an old tape doesn’t depend on how long it has been running; a shift in perspective doesn’t depend on how long you’ve held on to the old view.
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Sometimes kindness is stepping aside, letting go of our need to be right & just being happy for someone.
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When you flip the switch in that attic, it doesn’t matter whether its been dark for ten minutes, ten years or ten decades.
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To offer our hearts in faith means recognizing that our hearts are worth something, that we ourselves, in our deepest and truest nature, are of value.
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By practicing meditation we establish love, compassion, sympathetic joy & equanimity as our home.
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Only when we start to distinguish reality from fantasy that we can humbly, with eyes wide open, forge loving and sustainable connections with others.
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You are capable of so much more than we usually dare to imagine.
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We cannot simply forgive and forget, nor should we.
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The key to cultivating confidence in ourselves is understanding our right to make the truth our own.
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Abiding faith does not depend on borrowed concepts. Rather, it is the magnetic force of a bone-deep, lived understanding, one that draws us to realize our ideals, walk our talk,and act in accord with what we know to be true.
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Our ability to connect with others is innate, wired into our nervous systems, and we need connection as much as we need physical nourishment.
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Even as we recognize our resentment, bitterness, or jealousy, we can also honor our own wish to be happy, to feel free.
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If we truly loved ourselves, we’d never harm another. That is a truly revolutionary, celebratory mode of self-care.
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Love exists in itself, not relying on owning or being owned.
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Self-compassion is like a muscle. The more we practice flexing it, especially when life doesn’t go exactly according to plan (a frequent scenario for most of us), the stronger and more resilient our compassion muscle becomes.
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Effort is the unconstrained willingness to persevere through difficulty.
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If we turn away from our own pain, we may find ourselves projecting this aversion onto others, seeing them as somehow inadequate for being in a troubled situation.
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Once someone appears to us primarily as an object, kindness has no place to root.
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We can free ourselves from the old stories that have reduced us & allow real love for ourselves to blossom.
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The starting place for radical re-imagining of love is mindfulness.
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With attachment all that seems to exist is just me & that object I desire.
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Forgiveness is a personal process that doesn’t depend on us having direct contact with the people who have hurt us.
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To reteach a thing its loveliness is the nature of metta. Through loving kindness, everyone & everything can flower again from within.
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If we fall, we don’t need self-recrimination or blame or anger – we need a reawakening of our intention and a willingness to re-commit, to be whole-hearted once again.
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For all of us, love can be the natural state of our own being; naturally at peace, naturally connected, because this becomes the reflection of who we simply are.
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Its never too late to take a moment to look.
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