Forgiveness is a personal process that doesn’t depend on us having direct contact with the people who have hurt us.
SHARON SALZBERGIf we truly loved ourselves, we’d never harm another. That is a truly revolutionary, celebratory mode of self-care.
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To reteach a thing its loveliness is the nature of metta. Through loving kindness, everyone & everything can flower again from within.
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The art of concentration is a continual letting go. We let go of what is inessential or distracting. We let go of a thought or a feeling, not because we are afraid of it or because we can’t bear to acknowledge it as a part of our experience; but, because it is UNNECESSARY.
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We don’t need any sort of religious orientation to lead a life that is ethical, compassionate & kind.
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When you flip the switch in that attic, it doesn’t matter whether its been dark for ten minutes, ten years or ten decades.
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You are capable of so much more than we usually dare to imagine.
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We are all too often told by someone that we are too old, too young, too different, too much the same, and those comments can be devastating.
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To offer our hearts in faith means recognizing that our hearts are worth something, that we ourselves, in our deepest and truest nature, are of value.
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Once we are honest about our feelings, we can invite ourselves to consider alternative modes of viewing our pain and can see that releasing our grip on anger and resentment can actually be an act of self-compassion.
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We often get caught up in our own reactions and forget the vulnerability of the person in front of us.
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We can free ourselves from the old stories that have reduced us & allow real love for ourselves to blossom.
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Mindfulness is the agent of our freedom. Through mindfulness we arrive at faith we grow in wisdom & we attain equanimity.
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The combination of realizing our distinctiveness along with our unity is seeing interdependence.
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Meditation can be a refuge, but it is not a practice in which real life is ever excluded. The strength of mindfulness is that it enables us to hold difficult thoughts and feelings in a different way—with awareness, balance, and love
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It is awareness of both our shared pain and our longing for happiness that links us to other people and helps us to turn toward them with compassion.
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Because the development of inner calm & energy happens completely within & isn’t dependent on another person or a particular situation, we begin to feel a resourcefulness and independence that is quite beautiful—and a huge relief.
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Abiding faith does not depend on borrowed concepts. Rather, it is the magnetic force of a bone-deep, lived understanding, one that draws us to realize our ideals, walk our talk,and act in accord with what we know to be true.
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Its never too late to take a moment to look.
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Thinking we are only supposed to have loving & compassionate feelings can be a terrible obstacle to spiritual practice.
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Love exists in itself, not relying on owning or being owned.
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Kindness is really at the core of what it means to be and feel alive.
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Once someone appears to us primarily as an object, kindness has no place to root.
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Self-compassion is like a muscle. The more we practice flexing it, especially when life doesn’t go exactly according to plan (a frequent scenario for most of us), the stronger and more resilient our compassion muscle becomes.
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Mindfulness isn’t difficult, we just need to remember to do it.
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Restore your attention or bring it to a new level by dramatically slowing down whatever you’re doing.
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We cannot simply forgive and forget, nor should we.
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The mind thinks thoughts that we don’t plan. It’s not as if we say, ‘At 9:10 I’m going to be filled with self-hatred.
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