It’s not your job to save people from their feelings.
SHELEANA AIYANASome of us are here to be the change-makers in our family system. We’re here to end generational trauma and start passing down love, instead of pain.
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Ultra-independence is a trauma response.
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Everybody comes into a relationship with baggage. We can either trip over each other’s stuff, or unpack it together.
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Sometimes it’s the people who have the most baggage that become the most attentive and committed partners.
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Authentic love can be unconditional and still require reciprocity, respect, and mutual willingness.
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Healing takes time. Be gentle with yourself.
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Chasing unavailable people is self abandonment.
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People who walk away from you without a clear conversation or a willingness to see your heart decided who you were long time ago. Let them go.
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When we heal ourselves, we heal our families. When we heal our families, we heal the world.
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Your body is meant to be the safest place for you to live.
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Some of us are here to be the change-makers in our family system. We’re here to end generational trauma and start passing down love, instead of pain.
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Chasing unavailable people is self abandonment.
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Opening your heart and being vulnerable in the face of fear is the most courageous thing you can do.
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It’s not your job to awaken your family.
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You don’t have to act on every thought and feeling you have.
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You do not have to be perfect to create healthy love, you just have to be willing.
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