Chasing unavailable people is self abandonment.
SHELEANA AIYANATo be human is to embrace change. There are parts of you ready to die and parts of you waiting to be born. You are never broken, lost. You are ever changing. Always becoming.
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When we heal ourselves, we heal our families. When we heal our families, we heal the world.
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You do not have to be perfect to create healthy love, you just have to be willing.
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Coming home to yourself is the process of remembrance.
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Anger is as sacred and valid as any other emotion.
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To be human is to embrace change. There are parts of you ready to die and parts of you waiting to be born. You are never broken, lost. You are ever changing. Always becoming.
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Be the kind of person you want to date.
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Your partner is your spiritual teacher.
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If they say they don’t want a relationship right now, that’s not an invitation to sit in their waiting room.
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Choose the path that feels lighter.
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Chasing unavailable people is a sneak way for the ego to avoid intimacy.
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Life isn’t trying to break you down. It’s trying to break you open.
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Some of us are here to be the change-makers in our family system. We’re here to end generational trauma and start passing down love, instead of pain.
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Ghosting is an expression of extreme anxiety and fear of intimacy. As much as it hurts to be on the receiving end, please know it was never about you.
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Everybody comes into a relationship with baggage. We can either trip over each other’s stuff, or unpack it together.
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If you have to abandon yourself to make the relationship work, that’s not love.
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Feelings don’t have to make sense to be valid.
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You are not separate from love, love is all that you are.
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Ultra-independence is a trauma response.
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Rejection is redirection.
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Sometimes we are afraid to let go of our story and our pain because we don’t know who we are without it.
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Don’t believe everything your mind tells you.
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Take the time to learn your partner’s heart.
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It’s not your job to awaken your family.
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No more dumpster diving for love. You can have it all. That healthy, beautiful, two feet kinda love.
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You are never, under any circumstance, responsible for the abusive actions of another.
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It’s okay to let go of anyone who doesn’t hold you in your highest light.
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