Ultra-independence is a trauma response.
SHELEANA AIYANAEverybody comes into a relationship with baggage. We can either trip over each other’s stuff, or unpack it together.
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Endings are also beginnings with a destination unknown.
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Your body is meant to be the safest place for you to live.
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You do not have to be perfect to create healthy love, you just have to be willing.
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One of the most painful things we can do is live our whole lives believing everything our mind tells us.
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Ghosting is an expression of extreme anxiety and fear of intimacy. As much as it hurts to be on the receiving end, please know it was never about you.
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You don’t hold place for everyone’s shit.
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Maturity in relationship is knowing that our partners do not belong to us.
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Chasing unavailable people is a sneak way for the ego to avoid intimacy.
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You don’t have to be “finished” your healing work before entering into your relationship.
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It’s not your job to awaken your family.
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Heartbreak does not have to be a meaningless experience. For many, it is a spiritual catalyst – a pathway to awakening to ones deepest desires for love, purpose and connection.
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Sometimes it’s the people who have the most baggage that become the most attentive and committed partners.
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Some of us are here to be the change-makers in our family system. We’re here to end generational trauma and start passing down love, instead of pain.
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It’s okay to let go of anyone who doesn’t hold you in your highest light.
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No more dumpster diving for love. You can have it all. That healthy, beautiful, two feet kinda love.
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