Take the time to learn your partner’s heart.
SHELEANA AIYANAEverybody comes into a relationship with baggage. We can either trip over each other’s stuff, or unpack it together.
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If they say they don’t want a relationship right now, that’s not an invitation to sit in their waiting room.
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Chasing unavailable people is self abandonment.
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Chasing unavailable people is a sneak way for the ego to avoid intimacy.
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You are not responsible for carrying the pain, trauma, or shame of your mother and father. Release yourself from carrying what was never yours to carry.
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Imagine what you could be doing with all the energy you give away to people who don’t want what you want.
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Ghosting is an expression of extreme anxiety and fear of intimacy. As much as it hurts to be on the receiving end, please know it was never about you.
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When we heal ourselves, we heal our families. When we heal our families, we heal the world.
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You can love someone and still make the choice to let them go.
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Ultra-independence is a trauma response.
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Authentic love can be unconditional and still require reciprocity, respect, and mutual willingness.
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Maturity in relationship is knowing that our partners do not belong to us.
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You do not have to be perfect to create healthy love, you just have to be willing.
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You don’t have to be “finished” your healing work before entering into your relationship.
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To be human is to embrace change. There are parts of you ready to die and parts of you waiting to be born. You are never broken, lost. You are ever changing. Always becoming.
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You are not separate from love, love is all that you are.
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