Maturity is willing to acknowledge what you are willing to shift, learn or give to create the kind of relationship you want.
SHELEANA AIYANAYou are never, under any circumstance, responsible for the abusive actions of another.
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Feelings don’t have to make sense to be valid.
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It’s not your job to awaken your family.
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Everybody comes into a relationship with baggage. We can either trip over each other’s stuff, or unpack it together.
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Be gentle with your heart.
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Power and energy games only exist in a relationship when the ego is at the wheel. When we heal our hearts, we can show up as mature beings in service to love.
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You don’t have to act on every thought and feeling you have.
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Feelings don’t have to make sense to be valid.
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You do not have to be perfect to create healthy love, you just have to be willing.
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Some of us are here to be the change-makers in our family system. We’re here to end generational trauma and start passing down love, instead of pain.
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Chasing unavailable people is a sneak way for the ego to avoid intimacy.
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You can love someone and still make the choice to let them go.
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Coming home to yourself is the process of remembrance.
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Heartbreak can trigger childhood wounds.
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The hallmark of secure attachment is being able to remain connected to yourself while also being connected to others.
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Your body is meant to be the safest place for you to live.
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Your partner is your spiritual teacher.
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When we heal ourselves, we heal our families. When we heal our families, we heal the world.
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Chasing unavailable people is self abandonment.
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People who walk away from you without a clear conversation or a willingness to see your heart decided who you were long time ago. Let them go.
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If you have to abandon yourself to make the relationship work, that’s not love.
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If they say they don’t want a relationship right now, that’s not an invitation to sit in their waiting room.
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Sometimes it’s the people who have the most baggage that become the most attentive and committed partners.
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Life isn’t trying to break you down. It’s trying to break you open.
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Heartbreak does not have to be a meaningless experience. For many, it is a spiritual catalyst – a pathway to awakening to ones deepest desires for love, purpose and connection.
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No more dumpster diving for love. You can have it all. That healthy, beautiful, two feet kinda love.
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The only way to confirm our worth, is to stop chasing people and start setting boundaries for who we allow in our lives.
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