The only way to confirm our worth, is to stop chasing people and start setting boundaries for who we allow in our lives.
SHELEANA AIYANAYou are not responsible for carrying the pain, trauma, or shame of your mother and father. Release yourself from carrying what was never yours to carry.
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You do not have to be perfect to create healthy love, you just have to be willing.
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Authentic love can be unconditional and still require reciprocity, respect, and mutual willingness.
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No more dumpster diving for love. You can have it all. That healthy, beautiful, two feet kinda love.
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It’s okay to let go of anyone who doesn’t hold you in your highest light.
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Living in each moment with the awareness that nothing is permanent is an invitation to love more deeply, to speak more honesty, and to align with whispers of our soul.
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You don’t hold place for everyone’s shit.
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Healing takes time. Be gentle with yourself.
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When we heal ourselves, we heal our families. When we heal our families, we heal the world.
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Ultra-independence is a trauma response.
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Maturity is willing to acknowledge what you are willing to shift, learn or give to create the kind of relationship you want.
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Your body is meant to be the safest place for you to live.
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If you have to abandon yourself to make the relationship work, that’s not love.
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Opening your heart and being vulnerable in the face of fear is the most courageous thing you can do.
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Be gentle with your heart.
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Ghosting is an expression of extreme anxiety and fear of intimacy. As much as it hurts to be on the receiving end, please know it was never about you.
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