Imagine what you could be doing with all the energy you give away to people who don’t want what you want.
SHELEANA AIYANAChasing unavailable people is a sneak way for the ego to avoid intimacy.
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Power and energy games only exist in a relationship when the ego is at the wheel. When we heal our hearts, we can show up as mature beings in service to love.
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Sometimes it’s the people who have the most baggage that become the most attentive and committed partners.
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One of the most painful things we can do is live our whole lives believing everything our mind tells us.
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Ghosting is an expression of extreme anxiety and fear of intimacy. As much as it hurts to be on the receiving end, please know it was never about you.
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Opening your heart and being vulnerable in the face of fear is the most courageous thing you can do.
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People who walk away from you without a clear conversation or a willingness to see your heart decided who you were long time ago. Let them go.
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Feelings don’t have to make sense to be valid.
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Healing takes time. Be gentle with yourself.
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You can love someone and still make the choice to let them go.
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No more dumpster diving for love. You can have it all. That healthy, beautiful, two feet kinda love.
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You don’t have to act on every thought and feeling you have.
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We are not our partner’s therapist, psychologist, teacher, judge. We are their friend, ally, and partner in healing.
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Chasing unavailable people is a sneak way for the ego to avoid intimacy.
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If you have to abandon yourself to make the relationship work, that’s not love.
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Rejection is redirection.
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