It’s not your job to save people from their feelings.
SHELEANA AIYANAIt’s not your job to save people from their feelings.
SHELEANA AIYANAYou don’t have to be “finished” your healing work before entering into your relationship.
SHELEANA AIYANAPeople who walk away from you without a clear conversation or a willingness to see your heart decided who you were long time ago. Let them go.
SHELEANA AIYANAMaturity is willing to acknowledge what you are willing to shift, learn or give to create the kind of relationship you want.
SHELEANA AIYANAOur ability to receive love is a mirror of our own self worth. Until we learn to receive love with an open heart, we’re limited to how deep our relationships can go.
SHELEANA AIYANAChasing unavailable people is self abandonment.
SHELEANA AIYANADon’t believe everything your mind tells you.
SHELEANA AIYANAYou do not have to be perfect to create healthy love, you just have to be willing.
SHELEANA AIYANAEndings are also beginnings with a destination unknown.
SHELEANA AIYANARejection is redirection.
SHELEANA AIYANAChoose the path that feels lighter.
SHELEANA AIYANAYou are never, under any circumstance, responsible for the abusive actions of another.
SHELEANA AIYANAPeople who walk away from you without a clear conversation or a willingness to see your heart decided who you were long time ago. Let them go.
SHELEANA AIYANAFeelings don’t have to make sense to be valid.
SHELEANA AIYANASometimes we are afraid to let go of our story and our pain because we don’t know who we are without it.
SHELEANA AIYANAYou don’t hold place for everyone’s shit.
SHELEANA AIYANA