We are not our partner’s therapist, psychologist, teacher, judge. We are their friend, ally, and partner in healing.
SHELEANA AIYANAYou don’t have to be “finished” your healing work before entering into your relationship.
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Imagine what you could be doing with all the energy you give away to people who don’t want what you want.
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Opening your heart and being vulnerable in the face of fear is the most courageous thing you can do.
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The hallmark of secure attachment is being able to remain connected to yourself while also being connected to others.
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When we heal ourselves, we heal our families. When we heal our families, we heal the world.
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Authentic love can be unconditional and still require reciprocity, respect, and mutual willingness.
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Rejection is redirection.
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No more dumpster diving for love. You can have it all. That healthy, beautiful, two feet kinda love.
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Take the time to learn your partner’s heart.
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It’s not your job to awaken your family.
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Anger is as sacred and valid as any other emotion.
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People who walk away from you without a clear conversation or a willingness to see your heart decided who you were long time ago. Let them go.
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Chasing unavailable people is a sneak way for the ego to avoid intimacy.
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You are not responsible for carrying the pain, trauma, or shame of your mother and father. Release yourself from carrying what was never yours to carry.
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Your body is meant to be the safest place for you to live.
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You do not have to be perfect to create healthy love, you just have to be willing.
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