You don’t have to be “finished” your healing work before entering into your relationship.
SHELEANA AIYANAAuthentic love can be unconditional and still require reciprocity, respect, and mutual willingness.
More Sheleana Aiyana Quotes
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One of the most painful things we can do is live our whole lives believing everything our mind tells us.
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You don’t hold place for everyone’s shit.
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Ultra-independence is a trauma response.
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Chasing unavailable people is self abandonment.
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We cannot save people. But we can love them. And this is the highest expression of our essence.
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It’s not your job to awaken your family.
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Do not cling to what isn’t meant for you.
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Ghosting is an expression of extreme anxiety and fear of intimacy. As much as it hurts to be on the receiving end, please know it was never about you.
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The hallmark of secure attachment is being able to remain connected to yourself while also being connected to others.
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Be the kind of person you want to date.
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Don’t believe everything your mind tells you.
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Some of us are here to be the change-makers in our family system. We’re here to end generational trauma and start passing down love, instead of pain.
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You are never, under any circumstance, responsible for the abusive actions of another.
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Imagine what you could be doing with all the energy you give away to people who don’t want what you want.
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You can love someone and still make the choice to let them go.
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