We must be willing to encounter darkness and despair when they come up and face them, over and over again if need be, without running away or numbing ourselves in the thousands of ways we conjure up to avoid the unavoidable.
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Patience is a form of wisdom. It demonstrates that we understand and accept the fact that sometimes things must unfold in their own time.
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We take care of the future best by taking care of the present now.
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Maybe the fear is that we are less than we think we are, when the actuality of it is that we are much much more.
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The real meditation is how you live your life.
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In any given moment we are either practicing mindfulness, or defacto, we are practicing mindlessness.
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Meditation is not about feeling a certain way. It’s about feeling the way you feel.
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In letting go of wanting something special to occur, maybe we can realize that something special is already occurring.
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This is something called “walking meditation.” The goal is to learn to be aware of each and every movement and feeling. I know it seems ridiculous, but it does change the way you experience walking.
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The awareness is not part of the darkness or the pain; it holds the pain, and knows it, so it has to be more fundamental, and closer to what is healthy and strong and golden within you.
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Note that this journey is uniquely yours, no one else’s. So the path has to be your own. You cannot imitate somebody else’s journey and still be true to yourself. Are you prepared to honor your uniqueness in this way?
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But you cannot have harmony without a commitment to ethical behavior. It’s the fence that keeps out the goats that will eat all the young shoots in your garden.
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Mindfulness is not about getting anywhere else.
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One way to look at meditation is as a kind of intrapsychic technology that’s been developed over thousands of years by traditions that know a lot about the mind/body connection.
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All the suffering, stress, and addiction comes from not realizing you already are what you are looking for.
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Just watch this moment, without trying to change it at all. What is happening? What do you feel? What do you see? What do you hear?
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