It looks like it’s wasting time, but literature is actually the ultimate time-saver – because it gives us access to a range of emotions and events that it would take you years, decades, millennia to try to experience directly.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThe materialistic view of happiness of our age starkly revealed in our understanding of the word “luxury.
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It is in dialogue with pain that many beautiful things acquire their value. Acquaintance with grief turns out to be one of the more unusual prerequisites of architectural appreciation. We might, quite aside from all other requirements, need to be a little sad before buildings can properly touch us.
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Feeling lost, crazy and desperate belongs to a good life as much as optimism, certainty and reason.
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We are all more intelligent than we are capable, and awareness of the insanity of love has never saved anyone from the disease.
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Good books put a finger on emotions that are deeply our own – but that we could never have described on our own.
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Intuition is unconscious accumulated experience informing judgement in real time.
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Differ though we might with Christianity’s view of what precisely our souls need, it is hard to discredit the provocative underlying thesis.
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Unhappiness can stem from having only one perspective to play with.
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Our disrespect for thinking: someone sitting in a chair, gazing out of a window blankly, always described as ‘doing nothing’.
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One kind of good book should leave you asking: how did the author know that about me?
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Man seems merely dust postponed: the sublime as an encounter – pleasurable, intoxicating, even – with human weakness in the face of strength, age and size of the universe.
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It’s as though either you accept [religious] doctrine and then you can have all the nice stuff, or you reject the doctrine and you’re living in some kind of spiritual wasteland under the guidance of CNN and Walmart.
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Taking photographs can assuage the itch for possession sparked by the beauty of a place; our anxiety over losing a precious scene can decline with every click of the shutter.
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Not being understood may be taken as a sign that there is much in one to understand.
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The media insists on taking what someone didn’t mean to say as being far closer to the truth than what they did.
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There are selections so acute that they come to define a place, with the result that we can no longer travel through that landscape without being reminded of what a great artist noticed there.
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To one’s enemies: “I hate myself more than you ever could.
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What is a snob? A snob is anybody who takes a small part of you and uses that to come to a complete vision of who you are. That is snobbery.
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Although I don’t believe in God, Bach’s music shows me what a love of God must feel like.
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We need objects to remind us of the commitments we’ve made. That carpet from Morocco reminds us of the impulsive, freedom-loving side of ourselves we’re in danger of losing touch with. Beautiful furniture gives us something to live up to. All designed objects are propaganda for a way of life.
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For paranoia about ‘what other people think’ : remember that only some hate, a very few love – and almost all just don’t care.
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A good half of the art of living is resilience.
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It’s hard loving those who don’t much like themselves: “If you’re so great, why would you think I’m so great.
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One’s doing well if age improves even slightly one’s capacity to hold on to that vital truism: “This too shall pass.
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The challenge for a human now is to be more interesting to another than his or her smartphone.
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Architects themselves tend to shy away from the word, preferring instead to talk about the manipulation of space.
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Mental health: having enough safe places in your mind for your thoughts to settle.
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