The challenge for a human now is to be more interesting to another than his or her smartphone.
ALAIN DE BOTTONA good half of the art of living is resilience.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Perhaps it is true that we do not really exist until there is someone there to see us existing, we cannot properly speak until there is someone who can understand what we are saying in essence, we are not wholly alive until we are loved.
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Because the rhythm of conversation makes no allowance for dead periods, because the presence of others calls for continuous responses, we are left to regret the inanity of what we say, and the missed opportunity of what we do not.
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If one felt successful, there’d be so little incentive to be successful.
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The media insists on taking what someone didn’t mean to say as being far closer to the truth than what they did.
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As victims of hurt, we frequently don’t bring up what ails us, because so many wounds look absurd in the light of day.
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Do you love me enough that I may be weak with you? Everyone loves strength, but do you love me for my weakness? That is the real test.
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He did not mean to depress us, rather to free us from expectations which inspire bitterness. It is consoling, when love has let us down, to hear that happiness was never part of the plan.
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Bad art might be defined as a series of bad choices about what to show and what to leave out.
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I feel that the great challenge of our time is the communication of ideas.
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One of our major flaws, and causes of unhappiness, is that we find it hard to take note of appreciate and be grateful for what is always around us. We suffer because we lose sight of the value of what is before us and yearn, often unfairly, for the imagined attraction elsewhere.
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The telephone becomes an instrument of torture in the demonic hands of a beloved who doesn’t call.
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Politics is so difficult, it’s generally only people who aren’t quite up to the task who feel convinced they are.
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The greatest works of art speak to us without knowing us.
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A notorious inability to express emotions makes human beings the only animals capable of suicide.
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Work is most fulfilling when you’re at the comfortable, exciting edge of not quite knowing what you are doing.
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When you look at the Moon, you think, ‘I’m really small. What are my problems?’ It sets things into perspective. We should all look at the Moon a bit more often.
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We envy only those whom we feel ourselves to be like; we envy only members of our reference group. There are few successes more unendurable than those of our close friends.
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Memory is… similar to anticipation: an instrument of simplification and selection.
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The finest proof of our loyalty toward one another was our monstrous disloyalties towards everyone else.
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One kind of good book should leave you asking: how did the author know that about me?
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The mind does most of its best thinking when we aren’t there. The answers are there in the morning.
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The longing for destiny is nowhere stronger than in our romantic life.
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Being content is perhaps no less easy than playing the violin well: and requires no less practice.
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Arguments are like eels: however logical, they may slip from the minds weak grasp unless fixed there by imagery and style.
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Reputation matters so much only because people so seldom think for themselves.
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The inability to live in the present lies in the fear of leaving the sheltered position of anticipation or memory, and so of admitting that this is the only life that one is ever likely (heavenly intervention aside) to live.
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