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The finest proof of our loyalty toward one another was our monstrous disloyalties towards everyone else.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton Our minds are susceptible to the influence of external voices telling us what we require to be satisfied, voices that may drown out the faint sounds emitted by our souls and distract us from the careful, arduous task of accurately naming our priorities.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton Philosophy had supplied Socrates with convictions in which he had been able to have rational, as opposed to hysterical, confidence when faced with disapproval.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton You normally have to be bashed about a bit by life to see the point of daffodils, sunsets and uneventful nice days.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton How generous was it to offer gifts to people one knew would never accept them?
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton We don’t really learn anything properly until there is a problem, until we are in pain, until something fails to go as we had hoped … We suffer, therefore we think.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton Maturity: knowing where you’re crazy, trying to warn others of the fact and striving to keep yourself under control.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton Our jobs make relentless calls on a narrow band of our faculties, reducing our chances of achieving rounded personalities and leaving us to suspect (often in the gathering darkness of a Sunday evening) that much of who we are, or could be, has gone unexplored.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton Once I began to consider everything as being of potential interest, objects released latent layers of value.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton Only as we mature does affection begin to depend on achievement.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton True respectability stems not from the will of the majority but from proper reasoning.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton Because the rhythm of conversation makes no allowance for dead periods, because the presence of others calls for continuous responses, we are left to regret the inanity of what we say, and the missed opportunity of what we do not.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton Must being in love always mean being in pain?
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton Taking photographs can assuage the itch for possession sparked by the beauty of a place; our anxiety over losing a precious scene can decline with every click of the shutter.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton Every adult life could be said to be defined by two great love stories: the story of our quest for sexual love and the story of our quest for love from the world.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton It’s perhaps easier now than ever before to make a good living; it’s perhaps harder than ever before to stay calm, to be free of career anxiety.
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Ranata SuzukiRanata Suzuki In this wilderness, Mankind is the animal I fear.
Addison SchmittAddison Schmitt We can always walk with them in the rain instead of just lending an umbrella.
Leon MarshLeon Marsh Flowers only wither to bloom again. So shall you break, only to be whole again.
Fareena AliyaFareena Aliya What do you do when the passion burns out? Start another fire.
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Will DurantWill Durant Keep your fears to yourself, but share your courage with others.
Robert Louis StevensonRobert Louis Stevenson We promise according to our hopes and perform according to our fears.
Francois de La RochefoucauldFrancois de La Rochefoucauld I have one great fear in my heart, that one day when they are turned to loving, they will find that we are turned to hating.
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