Good books put a finger on emotions that are deeply our own – but that we could never have described on our own.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThe company of certain people may excite our generosity and sensitivity, while that of others awakens our competitiveness and envy.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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What am I supposed to do here? What am I supposed to think?
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One of the better guarantors of ending up in a good relationship: an advanced capacity to be alone.
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These inventors were elevating the formulation of entrepreneurial ideas to the status of a visionary activity. Though forced to justify their efforts in the pragmatic language of venture capital, they were at heart utopian thinkers intent on transforming the world.
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People who readily accept the need for a gym will resist that their personalities might need some work too.
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There is always the option of being emotionally lazy, that is, of quoting.
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Only as we mature does affection begin to depend on achievement.
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We need objects to remind us of the commitments we’ve made. That carpet from Morocco reminds us of the impulsive, freedom-loving side of ourselves we’re in danger of losing touch with. Beautiful furniture gives us something to live up to. All designed objects are propaganda for a way of life.
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Most victories are, in the best way, acts of revenge.
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True love is a lack of desire to check one’s smartphone in another’s presence.
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Most good thinking has its origin in fear.
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I am in general a very pessimistic person with an optimistic, day to day take on things. The bare facts of life are utterly terrifying. And yet, one can laugh. Indeed, one has to laugh precisely because of the darkness: the nervous laughter of the trenches.
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What should worry us is not the number of people that oppose us, but how good their reasons are for doing so.
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Feeling lost, crazy and desperate belongs to a good life as much as optimism, certainty and reason.
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For paranoia about ‘what other people think’ : remember that only some hate, a very few love – and almost all just don’t care.
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I think people want to get married to end their emotional uncertainty. In a way, they want to end powerful feelings, or certainly the negative ones.
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