Artistic accounts involve severe abbreviations of what reality will force upon us.
ALAIN DE BOTTONA ‘good job’ can be both practically attractive while still not good enough to devote your entire life to.
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Being content is perhaps no less easy than playing the violin well: and requires no less practice.
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He did not mean to depress us, rather to free us from expectations which inspire bitterness. It is consoling, when love has let us down, to hear that happiness was never part of the plan.
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A good half of the art of living is resilience.
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We each appear to hold within ourselves a range of divergent views as to our native qualities.. And amid such uncertainty, we typically turn to the wider world to settle the question of our significance.. we seem beholden to affections of others to endure ourselves.
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The activities of drawing, eating and drinking, all involve assimilations by the self of desirable elements from the world, a transfer of goodness from without to within.
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One of our major flaws, and causes of unhappiness, is that we find it hard to take note of appreciate and be grateful for what is always around us. We suffer because we lose sight of the value of what is before us and yearn, often unfairly, for the imagined attraction elsewhere.
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There is a longing for a return to a time without the need for choices, free of the regret at the inevitable loss that all choice (however wonderful) has entailed.
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We should not feel embarrassed by our difficulties, only by our failure to grow anything beautiful from them.
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Good sex isn’t just fun, it keeps us sane and happy. Having sex with someone makes us feel wanted, alive and potent.
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In the works of Lucretius, we find two reasons why we shouldn’t worry about death. If you have had a successful life, Lucretius tell us, there’s no reason to mind its end. And, if you haven’t had a good time, “Why do you seek to add more years, which would also pass but ill?”
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Most of what makes a book ‘good’ is that we are reading it at the right moment for us.
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Although I don’t believe in God, Bach’s music shows me what a love of God must feel like.
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Perhaps it is true that we do not really exist until there is someone there to see us existing, we cannot properly speak until there is someone who can understand what we are saying in essence, we are not wholly alive until we are loved.
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Every time we feel satisfied with what we have, we can be counted as rich, however little we may actually possess.
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If one felt successful, there’d be so little incentive to be successful.
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A notorious inability to express emotions makes human beings the only animals capable of suicide.
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Art cannot single-handedly create enthusiasm… it merely contributes to enthusiasm and guides us to be more conscious of feelings that we might previously have experienced only tentatively or hurriedly.
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Most of our childhood is stored not in photos, but in certain biscuits, lights of day, smells, textures of carpet.
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In the oasis complex, the thirsty man images he sees water, palm trees, and shade not because he has evidence for the belief, but because he has a need for it. Desperate needs bring about a hallucination of their solution: thirst hallucinates water.
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There may be significant things to learn about people by looking at what annoys them most.
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Getting to the top has an unfortunate tendency to persuade people that the system is OK after all.
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You need a long hard day’s work to reveal the logic of the craving for very bad tv and alcohol.
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Every adult life could be said to be defined by two great love stories: the story of our quest for sexual love and the story of our quest for love from the world.
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I went to church and couldn’t swallow it. The music was nice but I don’t belong there.
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When Proust urges us to evaluate the world properly, he repeatedly reminds us of the value of modest scenes.
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Politics is so difficult, it’s generally only people who aren’t quite up to the task who feel convinced they are.
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