The challenge for a human now is to be more interesting to another than his or her smartphone.
ALAIN DE BOTTONLiterature deserves its prestige for one reason above all others – because it’s a tool to help us live and die with a little bit more wisdom, goodness, and sanity.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Writing isn’t a career choice. It’s self-medication that over time precipitates the madness it was meant to ward off.
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Taking photographs can assuage the itch for possession sparked by the beauty of a place; our anxiety over losing a precious scene can decline with every click of the shutter.
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Once I began to consider everything as being of potential interest, objects released latent layers of value.
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Intuition is unconscious accumulated experience informing judgement in real time.
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How do the stems connect to the roots?’ ‘Where is the mist coming from?’ ‘Why does one tree seem darker than another?’ These questions are implicitly asked and answered in the process of sketching.
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Every realistic picture represents a choice as to which features of reality should be given prominence; no painting ever captures the whole.
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I learnt to stop fantasising about the perfect job or the perfect relationship because that can actually be an excuse for not living.
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Differ though we might with Christianity’s view of what precisely our souls need, it is hard to discredit the provocative underlying thesis.
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My writing always came out of a very personal place, out of an attempt to stay sane.
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Unnatural to expect that learning to be happy should be any easier than, say, learning to play the violin or require any less practice.
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Not everyone is worth listening to.
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Our responses to the world are crucially moulded by the company we keep, for we temper our curiosity to fit in with the expectations of others.
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There may be significant things to learn about people by looking at what annoys them most.
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Good books put a finger on emotions that are deeply our own – but that we could never have described on our own.
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In the gap between who we wish one day to be and who we are at present, must come pain, anxiety, envy and humiliation.
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…if the beginnings of love and amorous politics are equally rosy, then the ends may be equally bloody.
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Most of what makes a book ‘good’ is that we are reading it at the right moment for us.
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Every adult life could be said to be defined by two great love stories: the story of our quest for sexual love and the story of our quest for love from the world.
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True love is a lack of desire to check one’s smartphone in another’s presence.
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You have to be quite heavily invested in someone to do them the honour of telling them you’re annoyed with them.
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How generous was it to offer gifts to people one knew would never accept them?
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Being content is perhaps no less easy than playing the violin well: and requires no less practice.
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The very act of drawing an object, however badly, swiftly takes the drawer from a woolly sense of what the object looks like to a precise awareness of its component parts and particularities.
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We should not feel embarrassed by our difficulties, only by our failure to grow anything beautiful from them.
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It is not just nature that defies us. Human life is as overwhelming… If we spend time in it [the vast spaces of nature], they may help us to accept more graciously the great, unfathomable events that molest our lives and will inevitably return us to dust.
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One of our major flaws, and causes of unhappiness, is that we find it hard to take note of appreciate and be grateful for what is always around us. We suffer because we lose sight of the value of what is before us and yearn, often unfairly, for the imagined attraction elsewhere.
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