It wasn’t only fanatics and drunkards who began conversations with strangers in public.
ALAIN DE BOTTONIn the oasis complex, the thirsty man images he sees water, palm trees, and shade not because he has evidence for the belief, but because he has a need for it. Desperate needs bring about a hallucination of their solution: thirst hallucinates water.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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The longing for destiny is nowhere stronger than in our romantic life.
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The happiness that may emerge from taking a second look is central to Proust’s therapeutic conception. It reveals the extent to which our dissatisfactions may be the result of failing to look properly at our lives rather than the result of anything inherently deficient about them.
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Most anger stems from feelings of weakness, sadness and fear: hard to remember when one is at the receiving end of its defiant roar.
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I learnt to stop fantasising about the perfect job or the perfect relationship because that can actually be an excuse for not living.
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You need a long hard day’s work to reveal the logic of the craving for very bad tv and alcohol.
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Cynics are – beneath it all – only idealists with awkwardly high standards.
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As victims of hurt, we frequently don’t bring up what ails us, because so many wounds look absurd in the light of day.
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Every realistic picture represents a choice as to which features of reality should be given prominence; no painting ever captures the whole.
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Good sex isn’t just fun, it keeps us sane and happy. Having sex with someone makes us feel wanted, alive and potent.
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Must being in love always mean being in pain?
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The attentions of others matter to us because we are afflicted by a congenital uncertainty as to our own value, as a result of which affliction we tend to allow others’ appraisals to play a determining role in how we see ourselves. Our sense of identity is held captive by the judgements of those we live among.
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The company of certain people may excite our generosity and sensitivity, while that of others awakens our competitiveness and envy.
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The mind does most of its best thinking when we aren’t there. The answers are there in the morning.
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We are all more intelligent than we are capable, and awareness of the insanity of love has never saved anyone from the disease.
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One of the best protections against disappointment is to have a lot going on.
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Journeys are the midwives of thought. Few places are more conducive to internal conversations than moving planes, ships or trains.
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What we seek, at the deepest level, is inwardly to resemble, rather than physically to possess, the objects and places that touch us through their beauty.
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Newspapers are being read all around. The point is not, of course, to glean new information, but rather to coax the mind out of its sleep-induced introspective temper.
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If we are inclined to forget how much there is in the world besides that which we anticipate, then works of art are perhaps a little to blame, for in them we find at work the same process of simplification or selection as in the imagination.
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These inventors were elevating the formulation of entrepreneurial ideas to the status of a visionary activity. Though forced to justify their efforts in the pragmatic language of venture capital, they were at heart utopian thinkers intent on transforming the world.
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After 40 (old age for most of man’s history), one should strive to be more or less packed and ready to go were the end call to come.
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Insomnia is a glamorous term for thoughts you forgot to have in the day.
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An argument in a couple: 2 people attempting to introduce each other to important truths – by panicked shouting.
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Work is most fulfilling when you’re at the comfortable, exciting edge of not quite knowing what you are doing.
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Most of what makes a book ‘good’ is that we are reading it at the right moment for us.
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The greatest difficulty of Travel is that one is forced to take oneself along.
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