After 40 (old age for most of man’s history), one should strive to be more or less packed and ready to go were the end call to come.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThe need for love hallucinates a prince or princess. The oasis complex is never a complete delusion: the man in the desert does see something on the horizon. It is just that the palms have withered, the well is dry, and the place is infected with locusts.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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We don’t really learn anything properly until there is a problem, until we are in pain, until something fails to go as we had hoped … We suffer, therefore we think.
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In their different ways, art and philosophy help us, in Schopenhauer’s words, to turn pain into knowledge.
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An argument in a couple: 2 people attempting to introduce each other to important truths – by panicked shouting.
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Most of what makes a book ‘good’ is that we are reading it at the right moment for us.
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We will cease to be angry once we cease to be so hopeful.
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There are selections so acute that they come to define a place, with the result that we can no longer travel through that landscape without being reminded of what a great artist noticed there.
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When you look at the Moon, you think, ‘I’m really small. What are my problems?’ It sets things into perspective. We should all look at the Moon a bit more often.
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I went to church and couldn’t swallow it. The music was nice but I don’t belong there.
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We often lose our tempers not with those who are actually to blame; just with those who love us enough to forgive us our foul moods.
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The only people we can think of as normal are those we don’t yet know very well.
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Forcing people to eat together is an effective way to promote tolerance.
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One rarely falls in love without being as much attracted to what is interestingly wrong with someone as what is objectively healthy.
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In a secularising world, art has replaced religion as a touchstone of our reverence and devotion.
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Cynics are – beneath it all – only idealists with awkwardly high standards.
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Must being in love always mean being in pain?
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