Our capacity to draw happiness from aesthetic objects or material goods in fact seems critically dependent on our first satisfying a more important range of emotional or psychological needs, among them the need for understanding, for love, expression and respect.
ALAIN DE BOTTONAfter 40 (old age for most of man’s history), one should strive to be more or less packed and ready to go were the end call to come.
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The activities of drawing, eating and drinking, all involve assimilations by the self of desirable elements from the world, a transfer of goodness from without to within.
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The arrogance that says analysing the relationship between reasons and causes is more important than writing a philosophy of shyness or sadness or friendship drives me nuts. I can’t accept that.
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Bitterness: anger that forgot where it came from.
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There is a devilishly direct relationship between the significance of an idea and how nervous we become at the prospect of having to think about it.
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A virtuous, ordinary life, striving for wisdom but never far from folly, is achievement enough.
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Being content is perhaps no less easy than playing the violin well: and requires no less practice.
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Most victories are, in the best way, acts of revenge.
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One’s doing well if age improves even slightly one’s capacity to hold on to that vital truism: “This too shall pass.
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One of the better guarantors of ending up in a good relationship: an advanced capacity to be alone.
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Most of what makes a book ‘good’ is that we are reading it at the right moment for us.
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Insomnia is a glamorous term for thoughts you forgot to have in the day.
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We study biology, physics, movements of glaciers… Where are the classes on envy, feeling wronged, despair, bitterness.
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Wealth is not an absolute. It is relative to desire. Every time we yearn for something we cannot afford, we grow poorer, whatever our resources. And every time we feel satisfied with what we have, we can be counted as rich, however little we may actually possess.
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The blunt large questions become connected to smaller, apparently esoteric ones.
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Feeling lost, crazy and desperate belongs to a good life as much as optimism, certainty and reason.
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