Forcing people to eat together is an effective way to promote tolerance.
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Alain de BottonAlain de Botton Wealth is not an absolute. It is relative to desire. Every time we yearn for something we cannot afford, we grow poorer, whatever our resources. And every time we feel satisfied with what we have, we can be counted as rich, however little we may actually possess.
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Alain de BottonAlain de Botton Travel agents would be wiser to ask us what we hope to change about our lives rather than simply where we wish to go.
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Alain de BottonAlain de Botton The flawless object throws into perspective the mediocrity that surrounds it. We are reminded of the way we would wish things always to be and of how incomplete our lives remain.
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Barbara CramptonBarbara Crampton I wanted to bring people together, and most importantly not feel threatened when they came to watch me box.
Barry McGuiganBarry McGuigan My friend Quincy Jones says we won our first Grammys together in 1963. I have no recollection. I don’t even remember the room. When he showed me the picture, I remembered what I wore. But it’s like awards don’t mean anything.
Barbra StreisandBarbra Streisand It’s hard to win in the NFL. You have to maintain a very delicate balance putting together the right team to be able to win and have any amount of success.
Barry SandersBarry Sanders We had a relationship that lasted 44 years. Herbert and I lived together 10 years before we were married. He always gave me a little heart for whatever anniversary.
Uta HagenUta Hagen It was great being together as a band, but much more difficult being brothers than it was being in a band.
Barry GibbBarry Gibb While holding the eurozone together will be costly and difficult and painful for the politicians, breaking it up will be even more costly and more difficult.
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