Every realistic picture represents a choice as to which features of reality should be given prominence; no painting ever captures the whole.
ALAIN DE BOTTONWe are presented with an unpleasant choice between either committing to peculiar concepts about immaterial deities or letting go entirely of a host of consoling, subtle or just charming rituals for which we struggle to find equivalents in secular society.
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We read the weird tales in newspapers to crowd out the even weirder stuff inside us.
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Writing isn’t a career choice. It’s self-medication that over time precipitates the madness it was meant to ward off.
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Artistic accounts involve severe abbreviations of what reality will force upon us.
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Taking photographs can assuage the itch for possession sparked by the beauty of a place; our anxiety over losing a precious scene can decline with every click of the shutter.
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Wealth is not an absolute. It is relative to desire. Every time we yearn for something we cannot afford, we grow poorer, whatever our resources. And every time we feel satisfied with what we have, we can be counted as rich, however little we may actually possess.
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What is fascinating about marriage is why anyone wants to get married.
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Everyone wants a better life: very few of us want to be better people.
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Happiness is impossible for longer than 15 minutes. We are the descendants of creatures who, above all else, worried.
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Most of what makes a book ‘good’ is that we are reading it at the right moment for us.
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The challenge of modern relationships: how to prove more interesting than the other’s smartphone.
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You need a long hard day’s work to reveal the logic of the craving for very bad tv and alcohol.
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Being content is perhaps no less easy than playing the violin well: and requires no less practice.
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A successful work will draw out the features capable of exciting a sense of beauty and interest in the spectator.
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One of the best protections against disappointment is to have a lot going on.
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Do you love me enough that I may be weak with you? Everyone loves strength, but do you love me for my weakness? That is the real test.
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As victims of hurt, we frequently don’t bring up what ails us, because so many wounds look absurd in the light of day.
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Only as we mature does affection begin to depend on achievement.
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To one’s enemies: “I hate myself more than you ever could.
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We are like an exquisite high-speed aircraft which for lack of a tiny part is left stranded beside the runway, rendered slower than a tractor or bicycle.
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We are all more intelligent than we are capable, and awareness of the insanity of love has never saved anyone from the disease.
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Those who divorce aren’t necessarily the most unhappy, just those neatly able to believe their misery is caused by one other person.
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It is perhaps when our lives are at their most problematic that we are likely to be most receptive to beautiful things.
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Forgiveness requires a sense that bad behaviour is a sign of suffering rather than malice.
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As adults, we try to develop the character traits that would have rescued our parents.
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Philosophy had supplied Socrates with convictions in which he had been able to have rational, as opposed to hysterical, confidence when faced with disapproval.
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In a secularising world, art has replaced religion as a touchstone of our reverence and devotion.
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