There may be significant things to learn about people by looking at what annoys them most.
ALAIN DE BOTTON
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We keep a special place in our hearts for people who refuse to be impressed by us.
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Alain de BottonAlain de Botton When work is not going well, it’s useful to remember that our identities stretch beyond what is on the business card, that we were people long before we became workers – and will continue to be human once we have put our tools down forever.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton We are all more intelligent than we are capable, and awareness of the insanity of love has never saved anyone from the disease.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton In the oasis complex, the thirsty man images he sees water, palm trees, and shade not because he has evidence for the belief, but because he has a need for it. Desperate needs bring about a hallucination of their solution: thirst hallucinates water.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton Travel agents would be wiser to ask us what we hope to change about our lives rather than simply where we wish to go.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton What we seek, at the deepest level, is inwardly to resemble, rather than physically to possess, the objects and places that touch us through their beauty.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton The flawless object throws into perspective the mediocrity that surrounds it. We are reminded of the way we would wish things always to be and of how incomplete our lives remain.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton Not being understood may be taken as a sign that there is much in one to understand.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton Curiosity takes ignorance seriously – and is confident enough to admit when it’s in the dark. It is aware of not knowing. And then it sets out to do something about it.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton Rage is caused by a conviction, almost comic in its optimistic origins (however tragic in its effects), that a given frustration has not been written into the contract of life.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton Journeys are the midwives of thought. Few places are more conducive to internal conversations than moving planes, ships or trains.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton Unhappiness can stem from having only one perspective to play with.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton A notorious inability to express emotions makes human beings the only animals capable of suicide.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton Differ though we might with Christianity’s view of what precisely our souls need, it is hard to discredit the provocative underlying thesis.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton The telephone becomes an instrument of torture in the demonic hands of a beloved who doesn’t call.
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