True love is a lack of desire to check one’s smartphone in another’s presence.
ALAIN DE BOTTONAs adults, we try to develop the character traits that would have rescued our parents.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Man seems merely dust postponed: the sublime as an encounter – pleasurable, intoxicating, even – with human weakness in the face of strength, age and size of the universe.
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Envy: a confused, tangled guide to one’s own ambitions.
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You need a long hard day’s work to reveal the logic of the craving for very bad tv and alcohol.
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Never too late to learn some embarrassingly basic, stupidly obvious things about oneself.
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The happiness that may emerge from taking a second look is central to Proust’s therapeutic conception. It reveals the extent to which our dissatisfactions may be the result of failing to look properly at our lives rather than the result of anything inherently deficient about them.
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Sweetness is the opposite of machismo, which is everywhere-and I really don’t get on with machismo. I’m interested in sensitivity, and weakness, and fear, and anxiety, because I think that, at the end of the day, behind our masks, that’s what we are.
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Not everyone is worth listening to.
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In a secularising world, art has replaced religion as a touchstone of our reverence and devotion.
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It wasn’t only fanatics and drunkards who began conversations with strangers in public.
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We should not feel embarrassed by our difficulties, only by our failure to grow anything beautiful from them.
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It’s hard loving those who don’t much like themselves: “If you’re so great, why would you think I’m so great.
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The materialistic view of happiness of our age starkly revealed in our understanding of the word “luxury.
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He did not mean to depress us, rather to free us from expectations which inspire bitterness. It is consoling, when love has let us down, to hear that happiness was never part of the plan.
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Intimacy is the capacity to be rather weird with someone – and finding that that’s ok with them.
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Forgiveness requires a sense that bad behaviour is a sign of suffering rather than malice.
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