I feel that the great challenge of our time is the communication of ideas.
ALAIN DE BOTTONEnvy: a confused, tangled guide to one’s own ambitions.
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Without sex, we would be dangerously invulnerable. We might believe we were not ridiculous. We wouldn’t know rejection and humiliation so intimately.
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Man seems merely dust postponed: the sublime as an encounter – pleasurable, intoxicating, even – with human weakness in the face of strength, age and size of the universe.
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Unnatural to expect that learning to be happy should be any easier than, say, learning to play the violin or require any less practice.
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The good parent: someone who doesn’t mind, for a time, being hated by their children.
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A virtuous, ordinary life, striving for wisdom but never far from folly, is achievement enough.
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Most anger stems from feelings of weakness, sadness and fear: hard to remember when one is at the receiving end of its defiant roar.
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One of the best protections against disappointment is to have a lot going on.
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One of the unexpectedly important things that art can do for us is to teach us how to suffer more successfully.
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Feeling lost, crazy and desperate belongs to a good life as much as optimism, certainty and reason.
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Everyone returns us to a different sense of ourselves, for we become a little of who they think we are.
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It is perhaps sad books that best console us when we are sad.
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The longing for destiny is nowhere stronger than in our romantic life.
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You have to be quite heavily invested in someone to do them the honour of telling them you’re annoyed with them.
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The attentions of others matter to us because we are afflicted by a congenital uncertainty as to our own value, as a result of which affliction we tend to allow others’ appraisals to play a determining role in how we see ourselves. Our sense of identity is held captive by the judgements of those we live among.
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If one felt successful, there’d be so little incentive to be successful.
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Unhappiness can stem from having only one perspective to play with.
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The only way to be happy is to realise how much depends on how you look at things
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The greatest difficulty of Travel is that one is forced to take oneself along.
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Our homes do not have to offer us permanent occupancy or store our clothes to merit the name. To speak of home in relation to a building is simply to recognise its harmony with our own prized internal song. Home can be an airport or a library, a garden or a motorway diner.
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We need objects to remind us of the commitments we’ve made. That carpet from Morocco reminds us of the impulsive, freedom-loving side of ourselves we’re in danger of losing touch with. Beautiful furniture gives us something to live up to. All designed objects are propaganda for a way of life.
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Most good thinking has its origin in fear.
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Rage is caused by a conviction, almost comic in its optimistic origins (however tragic in its effects), that a given frustration has not been written into the contract of life.
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When you look at the Moon, you think, ‘I’m really small. What are my problems?’ It sets things into perspective. We should all look at the Moon a bit more often.
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A ‘good job’ can be both practically attractive while still not good enough to devote your entire life to.
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Taking photographs can assuage the itch for possession sparked by the beauty of a place; our anxiety over losing a precious scene can decline with every click of the shutter.
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Don’t despair: despair suggests you are in total control and know what is coming. You don’t – surrender to events with hope.
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