Not being understood may be taken as a sign that there is much in one to understand.
ALAIN DE BOTTONThe problem is if you really believe in a society where those who merit to get to the top, get to the top, you’ll also, by implication … believe in a society where those who deserve to get to the bottom also get to the bottom and stay there.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Insomnia is a glamorous term for thoughts you forgot to have in the day.
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Good books put a finger on emotions that are deeply our own – but that we could never have described on our own.
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So many complaints boil down to the belly ache of the fragile, mortal, ignored ego in a vast and indifferent universe.
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Maturity: the confidence to have no opinions on many things.
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Work finally begins when the fear of doing nothing exceeds the fear of doing it badly.
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The finest proof of our loyalty toward one another was our monstrous disloyalties towards everyone else.
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The greatest difficulty of Travel is that one is forced to take oneself along.
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Most anger stems from feelings of weakness, sadness and fear: hard to remember when one is at the receiving end of its defiant roar.
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The problem isn’t so much finding good ideas (there is no shortage) as embedding the ones we have into everyday practice.
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Most of our childhood is stored not in photos, but in certain biscuits, lights of day, smells, textures of carpet.
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A ‘good job’ can be both practically attractive while still not good enough to devote your entire life to.
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You have to be quite heavily invested in someone to do them the honour of telling them you’re annoyed with them.
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We read the weird tales in newspapers to crowd out the even weirder stuff inside us.
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Although I don’t believe in God, Bach’s music shows me what a love of God must feel like.
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Our jobs make relentless calls on a narrow band of our faculties, reducing our chances of achieving rounded personalities and leaving us to suspect (often in the gathering darkness of a Sunday evening) that much of who we are, or could be, has gone unexplored.
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Most of us still caged within careers chosen for us by our not entirely worldly 18-22 year old selves.
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It seems that most of us could benefit from a brush with a near-fatal disaster to help us recognise the important things that we are too defeated or embittered to recognise from day to day.
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We each appear to hold within ourselves a range of divergent views as to our native qualities.. And amid such uncertainty, we typically turn to the wider world to settle the question of our significance.. we seem beholden to affections of others to endure ourselves.
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Most of what makes a book ‘good’ is that we are reading it at the right moment for us.
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Only as we mature does affection begin to depend on achievement.
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Curiosity might be pictured as being made up of chains of small questions extending outwards, sometimes over huge distances, from a central hub composed of a few blunt, large questions.
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Endeavoring to purchase something we think beautiful may in fact be the most unimaginative way of dealing with the longing it excites in us, just as trying to sleep with someone may be the bluntest response to a feeling of love.
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Travel agents would be wiser to ask us what we hope to change about our lives rather than simply where we wish to go.
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After 40 (old age for most of man’s history), one should strive to be more or less packed and ready to go were the end call to come.
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We will cease to be angry once we cease to be so hopeful.
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The happiness that may emerge from taking a second look is central to Proust’s therapeutic conception. It reveals the extent to which our dissatisfactions may be the result of failing to look properly at our lives rather than the result of anything inherently deficient about them.
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