There is a longing for a return to a time without the need for choices, free of the regret at the inevitable loss that all choice (however wonderful) has entailed.
ALAIN DE BOTTONOne of the unexpectedly important things that art can do for us is to teach us how to suffer more successfully.
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It is perhaps sad books that best console us when we are sad.
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We are not always humiliated by failing; we are humiliated only if we first invest our pride and sense of worth in a given achievement and then do not reach it.
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People only get really interesting when they start to rattle the bars of their cages.
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It is not just nature that defies us. Human life is as overwhelming… If we spend time in it [the vast spaces of nature], they may help us to accept more graciously the great, unfathomable events that molest our lives and will inevitably return us to dust.
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There are selections so acute that they come to define a place, with the result that we can no longer travel through that landscape without being reminded of what a great artist noticed there.
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Our minds are susceptible to the influence of external voices telling us what we require to be satisfied, voices that may drown out the faint sounds emitted by our souls and distract us from the careful, arduous task of accurately naming our priorities.
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The telephone becomes an instrument of torture in the demonic hands of a beloved who doesn’t call.
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The challenge for a human now is to be more interesting to another than his or her smartphone.
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One of the best protections against disappointment is to have a lot going on.
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There may be significant things to learn about people by looking at what annoys them most.
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Artistic accounts involve severe abbreviations of what reality will force upon us.
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Taking photographs can assuage the itch for possession sparked by the beauty of a place; our anxiety over losing a precious scene can decline with every click of the shutter.
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One rarely falls in love without being as much attracted to what is interestingly wrong with someone as what is objectively healthy.
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The good parent: someone who doesn’t mind, for a time, being hated by their children.
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In their different ways, art and philosophy help us, in Schopenhauer’s words, to turn pain into knowledge.
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