It is by finding out what something is not that one comes closest to understanding what it is.
ALAIN DE BOTTONWe are all more intelligent than we are capable, and awareness of the insanity of love has never saved anyone from the disease.
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The only way to be happy is to realise how much depends on how you look at things
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Rather than employing it as a supplement to active, conscious seeing, they used the medium as a substitute, paying less attention to the world than they had done previously, taking it on faith that photography automatically assured them possession of it.
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The only people we can think of as normal are those we don’t yet know very well.
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He did not mean to depress us, rather to free us from expectations which inspire bitterness. It is consoling, when love has let us down, to hear that happiness was never part of the plan.
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The company of certain people may excite our generosity and sensitivity, while that of others awakens our competitiveness and envy.
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One of our major flaws, and causes of unhappiness, is that we find it hard to take note of appreciate and be grateful for what is always around us. We suffer because we lose sight of the value of what is before us and yearn, often unfairly, for the imagined attraction elsewhere.
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The media insists on taking what someone didn’t mean to say as being far closer to the truth than what they did.
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Curiosity might be pictured as being made up of chains of small questions extending outwards, sometimes over huge distances, from a central hub composed of a few blunt, large questions.
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We study biology, physics, movements of glaciers… Where are the classes on envy, feeling wronged, despair, bitterness.
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We are all more intelligent than we are capable, and awareness of the insanity of love has never saved anyone from the disease.
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I feel that the great challenge of our time is the communication of ideas.
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A notorious inability to express emotions makes human beings the only animals capable of suicide.
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Art cannot single-handedly create enthusiasm… it merely contributes to enthusiasm and guides us to be more conscious of feelings that we might previously have experienced only tentatively or hurriedly.
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Kant and Hegel are interesting thinkers. But I am happy to insist that they are also terrible writers.
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When Proust urges us to evaluate the world properly, he repeatedly reminds us of the value of modest scenes.
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If one felt successful, there’d be so little incentive to be successful.
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Art holds out the promise of inner wholeness.
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Our minds are susceptible to the influence of external voices telling us what we require to be satisfied, voices that may drown out the faint sounds emitted by our souls and distract us from the careful, arduous task of accurately naming our priorities.
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Once I began to consider everything as being of potential interest, objects released latent layers of value.
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As an atheist, I think there are lots of things religions get up to which are of value to non-believers – and one of those things is trying to be a bit better than we normally manage to be.
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My writing always came out of a very personal place, out of an attempt to stay sane.
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The dream of the news is that it makes us care about other people and situations. But we cannot identify with people to whom we haven’t been introduced. Humans will only respond to art, to people who are skilled in making you care.
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After 40 (old age for most of man’s history), one should strive to be more or less packed and ready to go were the end call to come.
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The longing for destiny is nowhere stronger than in our romantic life.
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Our greatest furies spring from events which violate our sense of the ground of our existence.
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Most anger stems from feelings of weakness, sadness and fear: hard to remember when one is at the receiving end of its defiant roar.
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