Alain de Botton on basic
Alain de Botton234 quotes“At the heart of every frustration lies a basic structure: the collision of a wish with an unyielding reality.”
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How do the stems connect to the roots?’ ‘Where is the mist coming from?’ ‘Why does one tree seem darker than another?’ These questions are implicitly asked and answered in the process of sketching.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton As victims of hurt, we frequently don’t bring up what ails us, because so many wounds look absurd in the light of day.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton There are selections so acute that they come to define a place, with the result that we can no longer travel through that landscape without being reminded of what a great artist noticed there.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton Socrates, on being insulted in the marketplace, asked by a passerby, “Don’t you worry about being called names?” retorted, “Why? Do you think I should resent it if an ass had kicked me?
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton Although I don’t believe in God, Bach’s music shows me what a love of God must feel like.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton When I see someone like Richard Dawkins, I see my father. I grew up with that. I’m basically the child of Richard Dawkins.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton The challenge of modern relationships: how to prove more interesting than the other’s smartphone.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton William James once made an acute point about the relationship between happiness and expectation. He argued that satisfaction with ourselves does not require us to succeed in every endeavour.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton Mental health: having enough safe places in your mind for your thoughts to settle.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton One’s doing well if age improves even slightly one’s capacity to hold on to that vital truism: “This too shall pass.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton Bad art might be defined as a series of bad choices about what to show and what to leave out.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton As an atheist, I think there are lots of things religions get up to which are of value to non-believers – and one of those things is trying to be a bit better than we normally manage to be.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton A good half of the art of living is resilience.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton Because it’s bad enough not getting what you want, but it’s even worse to have an idea of what it is you want and find out at the end of the journey that it isn’t, in fact, what you wanted all along.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton When Proust urges us to evaluate the world properly, he repeatedly reminds us of the value of modest scenes.
Alain de BottonAlain de Botton Wealth is not an absolute. It is relative to desire. Every time we yearn for something we cannot afford, we grow poorer, whatever our resources. And every time we feel satisfied with what we have, we can be counted as rich, however little we may actually possess.
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When I make a photograph I want it to be an altogether new object, complete and self-contained, whose basic condition is order (unlike the world of events and actions whose permanent condition is change and disorder).
Aaron SiskindAaron Siskind When it comes to educating all of us about the most basic things in life, it seems to me we need more kindergartens and fewer graduate schools.
Andy RooneyAndy Rooney I’m blessed with a good pair of ears. That’s how I fooled my piano teacher. I’d watch his fingers and I’d listen to it, and I just kind of basically learned it by myself.
Eddie Van HalenEddie Van Halen It would be nice to feel that we are a better world, a world of more compassion and a world of more humanity, and to believe in the basic goodness of man.
Barbara WaltersBarbara Walters I just have more fun when I get to try new things – and the action film genre has kind of painted itself into a corner, copied itself so many times and it has basically run out of bad buys.
Bruce WillisBruce Willis At the time me and X met, we weren’t homeless, but we were basically homeless.
Ski Mask the Slump GodSki Mask the Slump God There were basically three themes. One was the sun theme which is the guitar when he’d get sun on his leg and it comes again in the end. And there’s of course the lullaby which Dido sang, “If I Rise.” And then there’s this driving guitar which is the motivation theme.
A. R. RahmanA. R. Rahman Filling a need is not merely good business; it’s a basic attitude towards life. If you see a need, do whatever you can to meet that need.
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