Happiness is impossible for longer than 15 minutes. We are the descendants of creatures who, above all else, worried.
ALAIN DE BOTTONDiffer though we might with Christianity’s view of what precisely our souls need, it is hard to discredit the provocative underlying thesis.
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It wasn’t only fanatics and drunkards who began conversations with strangers in public.
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Politics is so difficult, it’s generally only people who aren’t quite up to the task who feel convinced they are.
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Because it’s bad enough not getting what you want, but it’s even worse to have an idea of what it is you want and find out at the end of the journey that it isn’t, in fact, what you wanted all along.
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We need objects to remind us of the commitments we’ve made. That carpet from Morocco reminds us of the impulsive, freedom-loving side of ourselves we’re in danger of losing touch with. Beautiful furniture gives us something to live up to. All designed objects are propaganda for a way of life.
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The arrogance that says analysing the relationship between reasons and causes is more important than writing a philosophy of shyness or sadness or friendship drives me nuts. I can’t accept that.
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It is perhaps when our lives are at their most problematic that we are likely to be most receptive to beautiful things.
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It is by finding out what something is not that one comes closest to understanding what it is.
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The greatest difficulty of Travel is that one is forced to take oneself along.
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Art cannot single-handedly create enthusiasm… it merely contributes to enthusiasm and guides us to be more conscious of feelings that we might previously have experienced only tentatively or hurriedly.
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Those who divorce aren’t necessarily the most unhappy, just those neatly able to believe their misery is caused by one other person.
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The good parent: someone who doesn’t mind, for a time, being hated by their children.
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The flawless object throws into perspective the mediocrity that surrounds it. We are reminded of the way we would wish things always to be and of how incomplete our lives remain.
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I feel that the great challenge of our time is the communication of ideas.
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If one felt successful, there’d be so little incentive to be successful.
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Maturity: knowing where you’re crazy, trying to warn others of the fact and striving to keep yourself under control.
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Literature is the greatest reality simulator – a machine that puts you through infinitely more situations than you can ever directly witness.
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In their different ways, art and philosophy help us, in Schopenhauer’s words, to turn pain into knowledge.
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Journeys are the midwives of thought. Few places are more conducive to internal conversations than moving planes, ships or trains.
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Rather than employing it as a supplement to active, conscious seeing, they used the medium as a substitute, paying less attention to the world than they had done previously, taking it on faith that photography automatically assured them possession of it.
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There is no such thing as work-life balance. Everything worth fighting for unbalances your life.
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Our homes do not have to offer us permanent occupancy or store our clothes to merit the name. To speak of home in relation to a building is simply to recognise its harmony with our own prized internal song. Home can be an airport or a library, a garden or a motorway diner.
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You have to be quite heavily invested in someone to do them the honour of telling them you’re annoyed with them.
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In a secularising world, art has replaced religion as a touchstone of our reverence and devotion.
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If we are inclined to forget how much there is in the world besides that which we anticipate, then works of art are perhaps a little to blame, for in them we find at work the same process of simplification or selection as in the imagination.
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A ‘good job’ can be both practically attractive while still not good enough to devote your entire life to.
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Most good thinking has its origin in fear.
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