Never too late to learn some embarrassingly basic, stupidly obvious things about oneself.
ALAIN DE BOTTONA notorious inability to express emotions makes human beings the only animals capable of suicide.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Our disrespect for thinking: someone sitting in a chair, gazing out of a window blankly, always described as ‘doing nothing’.
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We need objects to remind us of the commitments we’ve made. That carpet from Morocco reminds us of the impulsive, freedom-loving side of ourselves we’re in danger of losing touch with. Beautiful furniture gives us something to live up to. All designed objects are propaganda for a way of life.
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The difference between hope and despair is a different way of telling stories from the same facts.
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So many complaints boil down to the belly ache of the fragile, mortal, ignored ego in a vast and indifferent universe.
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The flawless object throws into perspective the mediocrity that surrounds it. We are reminded of the way we would wish things always to be and of how incomplete our lives remain.
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To be shown love is to feel ourselves the object of concern: our presence is noted, our name is registered, our views are listened to, our failings are treated with indulgence and our needs are ministered to. And under such care, we flourish.
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Every time we feel satisfied with what we have, we can be counted as rich, however little we may actually possess.
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Perhaps it is true that we do not really exist until there is someone there to see us existing, we cannot properly speak until there is someone who can understand what we are saying in essence, we are not wholly alive until we are loved.
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You have to be quite heavily invested in someone to do them the honour of telling them you’re annoyed with them.
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Artistic accounts involve severe abbreviations of what reality will force upon us.
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Only as we mature does affection begin to depend on achievement.
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We each appear to hold within ourselves a range of divergent views as to our native qualities.. And amid such uncertainty, we typically turn to the wider world to settle the question of our significance.. we seem beholden to affections of others to endure ourselves.
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Rage is caused by a conviction, almost comic in its optimistic origins (however tragic in its effects), that a given frustration has not been written into the contract of life.
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The greatest difficulty of Travel is that one is forced to take oneself along.
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One rarely falls in love without being as much attracted to what is interestingly wrong with someone as what is objectively healthy.
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