Journeys are the midwives of thought. Few places are more conducive to internal conversations than moving planes, ships or trains.
ALAIN DE BOTTONTo one’s enemies: “I hate myself more than you ever could.
More Alain de Botton Quotes
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Bitterness: anger that forgot where it came from.
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When I see someone like Richard Dawkins, I see my father. I grew up with that. I’m basically the child of Richard Dawkins.
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Philosophy had supplied Socrates with convictions in which he had been able to have rational, as opposed to hysterical, confidence when faced with disapproval.
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I feel that the great challenge of our time is the communication of ideas.
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The moment we cry in a film is not when things are sad but when they turn out to be more beautiful than we expected them to be.
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Most good thinking has its origin in fear.
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What is fascinating about marriage is why anyone wants to get married.
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Most of what makes a book ‘good’ is that we are reading it at the right moment for us.
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Newspapers are being read all around. The point is not, of course, to glean new information, but rather to coax the mind out of its sleep-induced introspective temper.
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How do the stems connect to the roots?’ ‘Where is the mist coming from?’ ‘Why does one tree seem darker than another?’ These questions are implicitly asked and answered in the process of sketching.
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Kant and Hegel are interesting thinkers. But I am happy to insist that they are also terrible writers.
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There may be significant things to learn about people by looking at what annoys them most.
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One of the better guarantors of ending up in a good relationship: an advanced capacity to be alone.
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A successful work will draw out the features capable of exciting a sense of beauty and interest in the spectator.
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Architects themselves tend to shy away from the word, preferring instead to talk about the manipulation of space.
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We study biology, physics, movements of glaciers… Where are the classes on envy, feeling wronged, despair, bitterness.
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Differ though we might with Christianity’s view of what precisely our souls need, it is hard to discredit the provocative underlying thesis.
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All tours are filled with humiliation. My publisher once hired a private jet to fly me to a venue where 1,000 people were waiting. It almost bankrupted him.
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The inability to live in the present lies in the fear of leaving the sheltered position of anticipation or memory, and so of admitting that this is the only life that one is ever likely (heavenly intervention aside) to live.
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The challenge of modern relationships: how to prove more interesting than the other’s smartphone.
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We read the weird tales in newspapers to crowd out the even weirder stuff inside us.
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There’s a whole category of people who miss out by not allowing themselves to be weird enough.
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Socrates, on being insulted in the marketplace, asked by a passerby, “Don’t you worry about being called names?” retorted, “Why? Do you think I should resent it if an ass had kicked me?
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Literature deserves its prestige for one reason above all others – because it’s a tool to help us live and die with a little bit more wisdom, goodness, and sanity.
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A notorious inability to express emotions makes human beings the only animals capable of suicide.
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It is striking how much more seriously we are likely to be taken after we have been dead a few centuries.
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