One of the best protections against disappointment is to have a lot going on.
ALAIN DE BOTTONDon’t despair: despair suggests you are in total control and know what is coming. You don’t – surrender to events with hope.
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Serious journalists often imagine society is adrift because people don’t know certain things.
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The blunt large questions become connected to smaller, apparently esoteric ones.
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It’s hard loving those who don’t much like themselves: “If you’re so great, why would you think I’m so great.
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Although I don’t believe in God, Bach’s music shows me what a love of God must feel like.
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We need objects to remind us of the commitments we’ve made. That carpet from Morocco reminds us of the impulsive, freedom-loving side of ourselves we’re in danger of losing touch with. Beautiful furniture gives us something to live up to. All designed objects are propaganda for a way of life.
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Intuition is unconscious accumulated experience informing judgement in real time.
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The mind does most of its best thinking when we aren’t there. The answers are there in the morning.
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It’s perhaps easier now than ever before to make a good living; it’s perhaps harder than ever before to stay calm, to be free of career anxiety.
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A good half of the art of living is resilience.
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We are like an exquisite high-speed aircraft which for lack of a tiny part is left stranded beside the runway, rendered slower than a tractor or bicycle.
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The greatest difficulty of Travel is that one is forced to take oneself along.
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The inability to live in the present lies in the fear of leaving the sheltered position of anticipation or memory, and so of admitting that this is the only life that one is ever likely (heavenly intervention aside) to live.
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If one felt successful, there’d be so little incentive to be successful.
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Our jobs make relentless calls on a narrow band of our faculties, reducing our chances of achieving rounded personalities and leaving us to suspect (often in the gathering darkness of a Sunday evening) that much of who we are, or could be, has gone unexplored.
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A danger of travel is that we see things at the wrong time, before we have had a chance to build up the necessary receptivity and when new information is therefore as useless and fugitive as necklace beads without a connecting chain.
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