The only way to confirm our worth, is to stop chasing people and start setting boundaries for who we allow in our lives.
SHELEANA AIYANAYou do not have to be perfect to create healthy love, you just have to be willing.
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You don’t have to act on every thought and feeling you have.
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Chasing unavailable people is self abandonment.
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If they say they don’t want a relationship right now, that’s not an invitation to sit in their waiting room.
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Healing takes time. Be gentle with yourself.
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Ultra-independence is a trauma response.
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Take the time to learn your partner’s heart.
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We are not our partner’s therapist, psychologist, teacher, judge. We are their friend, ally, and partner in healing.
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Heartbreak can trigger childhood wounds.
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People who walk away from you without a clear conversation or a willingness to see your heart decided who you were long time ago. Let them go.
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Chasing unavailable people is a sneak way for the ego to avoid intimacy.
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Everybody comes into a relationship with baggage. We can either trip over each other’s stuff, or unpack it together.
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You do not have to be perfect to create healthy love, you just have to be willing.
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You are not responsible for carrying the pain, trauma, or shame of your mother and father. Release yourself from carrying what was never yours to carry.
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Opening your heart and being vulnerable in the face of fear is the most courageous thing you can do.
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You don’t hold place for everyone’s shit.
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