People who walk away from you without a clear conversation or a willingness to see your heart decided who you were long time ago. Let them go.
SHELEANA AIYANAPeople who walk away from you without a clear conversation or a willingness to see your heart decided who you were long time ago. Let them go.
SHELEANA AIYANAGhosting is an expression of extreme anxiety and fear of intimacy. As much as it hurts to be on the receiving end, please know it was never about you.
SHELEANA AIYANABe the kind of person you want to date.
SHELEANA AIYANAFeelings don’t have to make sense to be valid.
SHELEANA AIYANALife isn’t trying to break you down. It’s trying to break you open.
SHELEANA AIYANAChoose the path that feels lighter.
SHELEANA AIYANABe gentle with your heart.
SHELEANA AIYANATo be human is to embrace change. There are parts of you ready to die and parts of you waiting to be born. You are never broken, lost. You are ever changing. Always becoming.
SHELEANA AIYANADo not cling to what isn’t meant for you.
SHELEANA AIYANAYou do not have to be perfect to create healthy love, you just have to be willing.
SHELEANA AIYANASometimes it’s the people who have the most baggage that become the most attentive and committed partners.
SHELEANA AIYANAIt’s not your job to awaken your family.
SHELEANA AIYANAYou don’t have to be “finished” your healing work before entering into your relationship.
SHELEANA AIYANAChasing unavailable people is self abandonment.
SHELEANA AIYANAMaturity is willing to acknowledge what you are willing to shift, learn or give to create the kind of relationship you want.
SHELEANA AIYANAYou don’t have to act on every thought and feeling you have.
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