You don’t have to act on every thought and feeling you have.
SHELEANA AIYANAIf they say they don’t want a relationship right now, that’s not an invitation to sit in their waiting room.
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Do not cling to what isn’t meant for you.
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Some of us are here to be the change-makers in our family system. We’re here to end generational trauma and start passing down love, instead of pain.
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Life isn’t trying to break you down. It’s trying to break you open.
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Heartbreak does not have to be a meaningless experience. For many, it is a spiritual catalyst – a pathway to awakening to ones deepest desires for love, purpose and connection.
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You are not responsible for carrying the pain, trauma, or shame of your mother and father. Release yourself from carrying what was never yours to carry.
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The hallmark of secure attachment is being able to remain connected to yourself while also being connected to others.
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We are not our partner’s therapist, psychologist, teacher, judge. We are their friend, ally, and partner in healing.
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Your body is meant to be the safest place for you to live.
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You are never, under any circumstance, responsible for the abusive actions of another.
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Take the time to learn your partner’s heart.
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Maturity is willing to acknowledge what you are willing to shift, learn or give to create the kind of relationship you want.
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Opening your heart and being vulnerable in the face of fear is the most courageous thing you can do.
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Choose the path that feels lighter.
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Everybody comes into a relationship with baggage. We can either trip over each other’s stuff, or unpack it together.
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Rejection is redirection.
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Be the kind of person you want to date.
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You can love someone and still make the choice to let them go.
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Your partner is your spiritual teacher.
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When we heal ourselves, we heal our families. When we heal our families, we heal the world.
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No more dumpster diving for love. You can have it all. That healthy, beautiful, two feet kinda love.
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You don’t have to be “finished” your healing work before entering into your relationship.
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Heartbreak does not have to be a meaningless experience. For many, it is a spiritual catalyst – a pathway to awakening to ones deepest desires for love, purpose and connection.
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Heartbreak can trigger childhood wounds.
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Chasing unavailable people is self abandonment.
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It’s not your job to awaken your family.
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Be gentle with your heart.
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