Your body is meant to be the safest place for you to live.
SHELEANA AIYANAIf they say they don’t want a relationship right now, that’s not an invitation to sit in their waiting room.
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Ultra-independence is a trauma response.
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The hallmark of secure attachment is being able to remain connected to yourself while also being connected to others.
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Everybody comes into a relationship with baggage. We can either trip over each other’s stuff, or unpack it together.
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Heartbreak does not have to be a meaningless experience. For many, it is a spiritual catalyst – a pathway to awakening to ones deepest desires for love, purpose and connection.
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Chasing unavailable people is self abandonment.
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You do not have to be perfect to create healthy love, you just have to be willing.
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Don’t believe everything your mind tells you.
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Sometimes it’s the people who have the most baggage that become the most attentive and committed partners.
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Heartbreak can trigger childhood wounds.
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We are not our partner’s therapist, psychologist, teacher, judge. We are their friend, ally, and partner in healing.
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Coming home to yourself is the process of remembrance.
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Maturity is willing to acknowledge what you are willing to shift, learn or give to create the kind of relationship you want.
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You don’t have to act on every thought and feeling you have.
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Take the time to learn your partner’s heart.
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To be human is to embrace change. There are parts of you ready to die and parts of you waiting to be born. You are never broken, lost. You are ever changing. Always becoming.
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